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Humanising Leadership with Mark LeBusque

July 18, 2022 Season 2 Episode 8
Humanising Leadership with Mark LeBusque
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Humanising Leadership with Mark LeBusque
Jul 18, 2022 Season 2 Episode 8

Mark LeBusque is on a mission to challenge leaders and organisation to be more human.  His people centric approach to leadership and organisation development is both provocative and timely as companies grapple with the competing tensions between people and profit.   In this episode Ged talks with his good friend Mark about the mission, why it matters and how leaders can adopt more human-centric practices that can unleash the real potential of their teams and organisations.   

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Take Care, Lead Well.

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Mark LeBusque is on a mission to challenge leaders and organisation to be more human.  His people centric approach to leadership and organisation development is both provocative and timely as companies grapple with the competing tensions between people and profit.   In this episode Ged talks with his good friend Mark about the mission, why it matters and how leaders can adopt more human-centric practices that can unleash the real potential of their teams and organisations.   

Contact Xtraordinary Leaders

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2. Follow us on Instagram @xtraordinary_leaders

3. Email us at interact@xtraordinaryleaders.com.au

4. Check out our website for more info Home | Xtraordinary Leaders

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It's not about the ordinary. 

 

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We've got enough of that. 

 

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It's about 

 

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the extraordinary. 

 

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And we need more 

 

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Hi there. 

 

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I'm Gerard PENNA and welcome 

 

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to the Extraordinary 

 

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Leaders podcast, where we spend 

 

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time with recognized leaders 

 

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and global experts exploring 

 

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the art and science 

 

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of remarkable leadership. 

 

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Hello and welcome to the 

 

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Extraordinary Leaders podcast. 

 

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My name is Gerard Penna and I'm 

 

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the host, as well as being the 

 

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founder of 

 

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Extraordinary Leaders, 

 

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a leadership development 

 

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company committed to lifting 

 

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the bar on leadership, as well 

 

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as supporting leaders in all 

 

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walks of life and at all stages 

 

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of their leadership journey. 

 

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This podcast is an extension of 

 

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our purpose to help leaders 

 

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succeed and to help leaders 

 

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step up to something beyond 

 

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the average, ordinary home 

 

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garden variety of leadership 

 

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that many of us have to 

 

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tolerate in our daily lives. 

 

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We do this through our podcast 

 

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by interviewing experts who 

 

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have something unique to 

 

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contribute to our understanding 

 

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of the exercise of leadership, 

 

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as well as conversations with 

 

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extraordinary and remarkable 

 

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leaders in their own right. 

 

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Individuals who are prepared to 

 

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put themselves out there to 

 

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influence and engage and 

 

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mobilize people around purposes 

 

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that matter missions, 

 

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goals, visions,  and outcomes 

 

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that make a difference for them 

 

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and for the people that they 

 

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do it with. 

 

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Today's conversation and guest 

 

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is an extension of a very 

 

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important development that's 

 

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occurring in the world of work 

 

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and in the world 

 

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of leadership. 

 

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The humanizing of workplaces. 

 

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Unfortunately, the practices of 

 

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many of our organizations and 

 

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workplaces and 

 

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even leadership. 

 

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Are the legacy of the 

 

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Industrial Revolution, in which 

 

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we found new ways of being able 

 

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to organize resources and 

 

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organize processes and organize 

 

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people to produce more 

 

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things faster, 

 

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more efficiently. 

 

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That industrialization process 

 

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was focused on the design of 

 

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things and the organization of 

 

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things for that 

 

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efficiency and productivity. 

 

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The assumption was that if we 

 

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were to design 

 

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these organizations, 

 

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design these processes 

 

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perfectly from an 

 

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engineering sense, we should 

 

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then be able to administer them 

 

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and execute them and operate 

 

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them in that perfect way. 

 

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And their job would be, 

 

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therefore, to identify those 

 

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ways in which the processes 

 

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were not following the intended 

 

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design in some way, 

 

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deviating from 

 

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what was intended. 

 

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And our job is to jump on it, 

 

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to identify the gap, 

 

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identify the error, 

 

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and then fix it. 

 

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And that thinking has permeated 

 

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the way that we think about 

 

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people as well, that they 

 

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should be able to execute 

 

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things perfectly, that they 

 

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should be able to fit together 

 

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in this seamless series of 

 

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cogs or interactions. 

 

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But we all know from the lived 

 

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experience that this is not the 

 

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way it is. 

 

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This is not what it means to be 

 

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human in the workplace. 

 

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To have a workplace that is 

 

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truly human, that honors the 

 

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role that people play 

 

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within it. 

 

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And respects their needs 

 

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motivations as human beings. 

 

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One of my favorite quotes 

 

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comes to mind. 

 

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It was by Rear Admiral 

 

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Grace Murray Hopper. 

 

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She was the first female to 

 

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achieve flag status in the 

 

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United States Navy. 

 

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She was also known for being 

 

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one of two people who developed 

 

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the computer programming 

 

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language that was used all 

 

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around the world called COBOL. 

 

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And she's also responsible for 

 

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coining the phrase There's a 

 

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bug in the system which we use 

 

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when our computers and other 

 

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devices stop working properly. 

 

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Apparently, in the days when 

 

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they used to have these large 

 

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reel to reel computers with 

 

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magnetic tape and these large 

 

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cabinets in which 

 

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they were housed. 

 

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Grace Murray Hopper one day 

 

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came in to work and she found 

 

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that that 

 

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computer wasn't working. 

 

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So they she opened up the 

 

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cabinet doors and a whole lot 

 

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of moths flew out. 

 

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There'd been an infestation 

 

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which had stopped the the 

 

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computer working properly. 

 

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And she's responsible for 

 

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coining that phrase. 

 

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There's a bug in the system. 

 

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The phrase that she used that I 

 

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use most regularly is we manage 

 

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things and we lead people. 

 

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And given that leadership is 

 

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about people 

 

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about influencing, 

 

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engaging and 

 

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mobilizing people. 

 

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It's quite difficult to have a 

 

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conversation about leadership 

 

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and what leadership needs to 

 

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look like and what leaders need 

 

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to do to be able to lift their 

 

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effectiveness without talking 

 

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about people, without talking 

 

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about the human aspect. 

 

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And so my guest in today's 

 

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podcast episode and the topic 

 

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that we're talking about is 

 

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all about that. 

 

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It's about being human and 

 

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humanizing workplaces, 

 

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being human as a leader. 

 

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So showing up. 

 

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Really genuinely, 

 

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authentically as a human being 

 

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and what that means. 

 

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As well as humanizing 

 

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workplaces that allows human 

 

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beings to be. 

 

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To thrive. 

 

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And to grow. 

 

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I first met Mark close to ten 

 

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years ago when we both attended 

 

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a program at 

 

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Harvard Kennedy School. 

 

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At that stage, Mark had been a 

 

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senior leader within one of my 

 

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former client organizations, 

 

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Australia Post, and he'd done 

 

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an amazing job running an 

 

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experiment or at humanising the 

 

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workplace for his team, 

 

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and he'd been able to produce 

 

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some astounding results. 

 

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Mark had become very motivated 

 

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to share this more broadly and 

 

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wanted to step more effectively 

 

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into a leadership role, 

 

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whether it was in 

 

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the organisation, outside the 

 

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organisation in which he 

 

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could change, change the 

 

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narrative around leadership and 

 

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culture to accommodate and 

 

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acknowledge the human aspect. 

 

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It seemed to me to be a pivotal 

 

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moment for Mark and when he 

 

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returned from Harvard. 

 

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He was on a mission and he, 

 

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over the last nine years has 

 

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become a a strong voice 

 

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around humanizing workplaces. 

 

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He does this through 

 

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his consulting, coaching, 

 

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advising of organizations, 

 

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including the AFL, through the 

 

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books that he's written and 

 

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published on the topic. 

 

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Through his own simply 

 

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practically human podcast. 

 

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And through his recent founding 

 

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of the Human Manager Academy. 

 

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My observation is that 

 

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everything that Mark has done 

 

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over the last decade has been 

 

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entirely consistent with my 

 

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first experiences of him as 

 

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someone who is 

 

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vulnerable, courageous. 

 

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Authentic. 

 

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Outspoken, provocative. 

 

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And focused on creating a much 

 

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more human world in which we 

 

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can live and thrive. 

 

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So I hope you 

 

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enjoyed this episode. 

 

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Going to be a good one. 

 

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Well, my good friend 

 

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Mark LeBusque. 

 

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It is an absolute privilege and 

 

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joy to have you on the 

 

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Extraordinary Leaders 

 

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podcast. 

 

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Welcome. 

 

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Thanks for having me on, mate. 

 

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I am returning the favor from 

 

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when you came on mine. 

 

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It was a magnificent episode. 

 

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Thank you. 

 

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My pleasure. 

 

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I've I've you know, prior to us 

 

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having this conversation, 

 

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I've let the listener know a 

 

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bit about you, what your 

 

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background and a bit about what 

 

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you do, but not really who 

 

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you are, and particularly not 

 

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how you see yourself. 

 

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So that's my first question 

 

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for you, mate. 

 

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If it's okay, straight to it. 

 

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Who is Mark LeBusque? 

 

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What a good question. 

 

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I'd like to Mark LeBusque is 

 

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I'm going to say I want to 

 

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start with two words helpful 

 

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human is really the way that 

 

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I describe myself. 

 

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He is also a combination of 

 

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some pretty simple stuff, 

 

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but also some very complex is a 

 

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complex piece to him as well. 

 

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I'd say that I'm a 

 

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like I like to I like to 

 

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affectionately call myself the 

 

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certified bogan from 

 

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my upbringing, which was in 

 

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Mildura up on the Murray River 

 

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and you know tipped hair and 

 

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permed hair at 15, some of 

 

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those sorts of things. 

 

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But at the same time 

 

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there's a. 

 

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Is a depth to me that 

 

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sometimes I think. 

 

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Gerard I like to play 

 

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down a bit. 

 

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There's a depth of knowledge 

 

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and understanding and of, 

 

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of all these things, 

 

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human leadership. 

 

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And I reckon I've just been 

 

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doing some work around this 

 

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just recently about why it is 

 

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that I try and step 

 

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away from that. 

 

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But so simple, 

 

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complicated, helpful. 

 

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And I'd like to think, 

 

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as people have said to me, 

 

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a big bloke with a warm heart. 

 

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Yeah I that resonates for me 

 

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definitely and the certified 

 

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bogan because I think you and I 

 

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when we first met each other 

 

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and it was possibly on one of 

 

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our walks at Harvard between 

 

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the residencies and the lecture 

 

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theatres that we talked about, 

 

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a whole bunch of stuff. 

 

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And one of the things that we 

 

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talked about was our, 

 

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you know, what seem to be 

 

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some similarities, you know, 

 

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not just sort of 

 

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biological similarities, 

 

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but same age, 

 

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roughly same age. 

 

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Both played the guitar and both 

 

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were bogans in 

 

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our teenage years. 

 

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So I had the I had the 

 

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marijuana earring with the 

 

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clash cut off sleeve t shirt 

 

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and the I my hair was actually 

 

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not tipped it was grape purple 

 

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because I'd used a home 

 

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dye on it. 

 

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Magnificent. 

 

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Wow And it was funny, 

 

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those walks too, because look, 

 

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I'd first met you when I was at 

 

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Australia Post and you were 

 

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coming in and 

 

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doing some facilitation. 

 

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And I know I've said this to 

 

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you before, but I used to sit 

 

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there and go, I want to 

 

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be him, I want to be the guy at 

 

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the front of the room. 

 

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And then I was lucky to be 

 

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introduced to you by, I think, 

 

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Dennis Attackador. 

 

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And then we caught up a few 

 

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times and I was always 

 

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absolutely in awe and I think I 

 

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used to say that a bit. 

 

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I'd be like, This guy is like, 

 

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he's uber smart, he's clever, 

 

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he he uses really cool words, 

 

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but he, but there's a real 

 

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depth about him. 

 

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And I was like, fanboy knew for 

 

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a long time and then I got to 

 

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go to Harvard with you and we 

 

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had some great conversations 

 

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and I think what came out of 

 

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that for me was. 

 

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Oh, look, I think I can now I 

 

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can actually stand 

 

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in his company. 

 

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I don't need to feel like I've 

 

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got to sit beneath him. 

 

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And that was a really good 

 

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moment for me because I 

 

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appreciated your wise counsel 

 

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early on, but then also your 

 

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friendship from there. 

 

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Yeah, likewise. 

 

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Isn't it funny how we. 

 

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Until when? 

 

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We don't really know someone 

 

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how we can hold them in a way. 

 

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Which is. 

 

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I said what? 

 

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I said, not helpful. 

 

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It's. 

 

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It's not complete and it, 

 

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and it does something 

 

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for us sometimes. 

 

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Which. 

 

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Doesn't allow ourselves to 

 

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actually be the way we need to 

 

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be or acknowledge ourselves the 

 

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way we need 

 

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to acknowledge ourselves. 

 

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But once we get to really know 

 

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that person, once we understand 

 

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the human that sits behind 

 

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the professional, the human 

 

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that sits behind the 

 

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professional act that, 

 

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you know, people might observe 

 

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of me when I'm 

 

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doing my facilitation. 

 

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It's incredible what it does to 

 

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the relationship and it 

 

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does for ourselves. 

 

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And that's that's that kind of 

 

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whole thing about human is 

 

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really that space that you 

 

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spent so much of your time in, 

 

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apart from the fact that, 

 

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you know, biologically as a 

 

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you act, you are part of the 

 

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human species, but you've 

 

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actually written two books. 

 

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The first one was Being Human 

 

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Why Robots Are Not the Answer 

 

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to Business Success and the 

 

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Little Book of Human, 

 

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which wasn't that long ago that 

 

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I was really fortunate to come 

 

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along to the launch of the 

 

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Little Book of Human Tales 

 

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Tools and Told You so's. 

 

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What inspired you to write them 

 

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and what's the connection of 

 

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those to this idea about being 

 

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human? 

 

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I guess the inspiration was 

 

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2020 odd years in corporate and 

 

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look really fortunate to to 

 

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spend that time there. 

 

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Sometimes I can be a little 

 

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critical of corporate, but I 

 

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think it was a great learning 

 

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laboratory for me. 

 

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And I guess what inspired it 

 

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was a I call it a 

 

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two year experiment. 

 

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And I can also say that I 

 

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wasn't always the most human of 

 

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managers very much. 

 

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Early days, young egomaniac 

 

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wanted to get to the top, 

 

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wanted to get a title. 

 

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So it was all about humans as 

 

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units of labor and outputs. 

 

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And I did that for a 

 

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very long time. 

 

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And I guess as you get a 

 

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bit older, in my last role, 

 

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I started to feel like I was an 

 

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outsider in the system, and I 

 

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think I started to flex a bit 

 

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of the maverick in me to go, 

 

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let's just try 

 

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some different things. 

 

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So the experiment was this. 

 

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The question was what would 

 

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happen if I treated my people 

 

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like human beings? 

 

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I sit down with an A3 sheet of 

 

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paper and I wrote the word 

 

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trust in the middle 

 

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of that sheet. 

 

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And then I wrote around that. 

 

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What would be some things that 

 

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I would do if I truly treated 

 

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the people like humans? 

 

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So I then ran an experiment, 

 

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the experiment on that, and I 

 

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went pretty gung ho at 

 

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the experiment, and ultimately 

 

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it resulted in some really 

 

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solid financial results 

 

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in the business. 

 

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So that really inspired me 

 

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to say, I'd like to do this 

 

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with more than 40 people and 

 

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and that then became more 

 

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people within that organization 

 

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and then ultimately the 

 

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opportunity to take it 

 

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outside of there. 

 

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Because what I really what I 

 

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really uncovered was that 

 

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there's a uniqueness to 

 

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each human being. 

 

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And I think potentially the way 

 

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we treat them in organizations 

 

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can be a bit robotic. 

 

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And I just wanted to see what 

 

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would happen out the 

 

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other side. 

 

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And look, fortunately, 

 

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maybe luckily or maybe not 

 

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luckily shared that the results 

 

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were significantly higher than 

 

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ever and it gave me some 

 

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liberty to keep applying that 

 

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and then ultimately taking it 

 

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out into the world to say 

 

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to people that. 

 

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That you can do this as well if 

 

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you're prepared to walk away 

 

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from some of the old system 

 

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and and embrace. 

 

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And I'm going to say this 

 

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starting with yourself, 

 

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embrace a more human approach, 

 

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which includes things like 

 

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deeper connections, 

 

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stronger sense of belonging. 

 

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Creating a safety net. 

 

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All of those things that we 

 

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talk a lot about, but we may 

 

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not have quite been able to get 

 

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there for one reason 

 

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or another. 

 

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You mentioned the sort of the 

 

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journey as sort of the start in 

 

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that narrative was, you know, 

 

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being at work and having this 

 

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piece of paper and writing the 

 

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word trust in the center. 

 

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What, though, was the personal 

 

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experience that kind of 

 

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catalyzed your desire? 

 

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What was the self-realisation 

 

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or the question that was 

 

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sitting with you? 

 

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Well, the thing that was 

 

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niggling you that led you to 

 

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want to make that choice. 

 

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What a great question. 

 

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So. 

 

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I just it was interesting that 

 

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I kept saying myself 

 

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to myself, this is going to 

 

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sound really benign, 

 

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but there's got to be 

 

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a better way. 

 

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Because we talk about it 

 

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a lot. 

 

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We talk about the people and 

 

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the people are our priority and 

 

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we should put the 

 

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people first. 

 

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And all of those words continue 

 

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to echo within my head, 

 

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and then I'll be like, 

 

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What does that mean? 

 

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And then and I'm going to say 

 

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this is with a little bit of 

 

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maverick in me, comes out 

 

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and goes, Why don't you why 

 

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don't you be the first one to 

 

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truly try this and see 

 

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what what happens. 

 

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So it was, it was about being 

 

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doing the right thing. 

 

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But what I really do know is 

 

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that and I think we've spoken 

 

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about this before, when I did 

 

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get a chance to sit down and 

 

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think more deeply about it, 

 

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I'm going to say more after the 

 

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event than before because I am 

 

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pretty simple, like it 

 

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just seems right. 

 

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But you know, the passing of my 

 

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father through him, taking his 

 

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own life, when I got to sit 

 

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down and and think about it, 

 

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when I was out doing my own 

 

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thing and not having a lot of 

 

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work early days was I really 

 

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started to dig into that. 

 

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And he'd left a note which 

 

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talked about belonging and that 

 

00:16:21:24 - 00:16:23:03

he was unsuccessful in his 

 

00:16:23:05 - 00:16:24:03

first attempt to take 

 

00:16:24:05 - 00:16:24:20

his life. 

 

00:16:24:24 - 00:16:26:07

And he left a note that said On 

 

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the bird and I'm and 

 

00:16:27:26 - 00:16:28:16

I don't belong. 

 

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And my catch cry today is and I 

 

00:16:32:18 - 00:16:33:17

know people are bit critical of 

 

00:16:33:19 - 00:16:34:14

one of the words which is 

 

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making but making 

 

00:16:35:19 - 00:16:36:18

every human belong. 

 

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That's something that's very, 

 

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very dear to me. 

 

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And I think it was really I 

 

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don't know that I had the 

 

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maturity when I first did the 

 

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experiment to have dug that 

 

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deeply into why I was 

 

00:16:47:12 - 00:16:47:27

doing it. 

 

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But when I had the time to 

 

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do that, to me, it's that's the 

 

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driver for me is that 

 

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human beings crave. 

 

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Social belonging. 

 

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They crave connection. 

 

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And and I just think we've got 

 

00:17:00:29 - 00:17:02:06

such a great opportunity as 

 

00:17:02:08 - 00:17:04:15

leaders and managers to to 

 

00:17:04:17 - 00:17:07:06

create that space where people 

 

00:17:07:08 - 00:17:08:21

have a really strong sense of 

 

00:17:09:01 - 00:17:11:11

where I fit into my team, 

 

00:17:11:13 - 00:17:12:02

my department, 

 

00:17:12:04 - 00:17:15:02

my organization, my community, 

 

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my family, all of those 

 

00:17:16:24 - 00:17:17:09

sorts of things. 

 

00:17:17:11 - 00:17:18:29

So I think that's been that's 

 

00:17:19:01 - 00:17:19:27

very clear to me now. 

 

00:17:19:29 - 00:17:20:27

But back then it was 

 

00:17:20:29 - 00:17:22:11

more like, I just 

 

00:17:22:13 - 00:17:23:00

think it's right. 

 

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And that was. 

 

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It was quite an experiment for 

 

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you to do. 

 

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Start doing this work and 

 

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thinking about doing this work 

 

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in the organization that you 

 

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worked in at the time because 

 

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it was an organization that 

 

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whilst it was. 

 

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People were nice to 

 

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each other. 

 

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There was this element of it. 

 

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It was all built around linear 

 

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processes that were all about 

 

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the movement of units of things 

 

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from here to there at the 

 

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lowest possible cost. 

 

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A lot of engineers had built 

 

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and designed the process, 

 

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and then a lot of technocrats 

 

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were running it. 

 

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So to even attempt to do 

 

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something like that in that 

 

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organization was quite both, 

 

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you know, courageous and 

 

00:18:00:07 - 00:18:01:09

powerful as an experiment. 

 

00:18:01:19 - 00:18:02:24

You've then gone outside the 

 

00:18:02:26 - 00:18:04:25

organisation and for now a 

 

00:18:04:27 - 00:18:05:20

number of years you've 

 

00:18:05:22 - 00:18:06:17

been out there. 

 

00:18:08:07 - 00:18:10:13

Encouraging people to be 

 

00:18:10:15 - 00:18:12:22

more human, to help make people 

 

00:18:13:11 - 00:18:14:12

provide the opportunity for 

 

00:18:14:14 - 00:18:15:17

people to be more human. 

 

00:18:16:21 - 00:18:17:06

What? 

 

00:18:17:11 - 00:18:18:25

What have you then observed and 

 

00:18:18:27 - 00:18:21:26

experienced in those workplaces 

 

00:18:21:28 - 00:18:23:18

that were beyond where you 

 

00:18:23:20 - 00:18:24:21

first started doing this? 

 

00:18:24:23 - 00:18:25:19

Has it led you to the 

 

00:18:25:21 - 00:18:28:02

conclusion that workplaces are 

 

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more human than you thought 

 

00:18:29:10 - 00:18:29:25

they were? 

 

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Or, as a general rule, do they 

 

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need a lot more humanizing than 

 

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you originally thought? 

 

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The really easy answer is all 

 

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of the above. 

 

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What have I observed? 

 

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I have observed a real appetite 

 

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for this work. 

 

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In the majority of cases, 

 

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because, look, you know, 

 

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we're tapping into what it is 

 

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to be human. 

 

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And that's the essence 

 

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of life, really. 

 

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It's the connection, 

 

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it's the belonging. 

 

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So there's a real there's an 

 

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appetite for it. 

 

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There's some trepidation 

 

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as well, because a lot of my 

 

00:19:00:28 - 00:19:02:20

work is, you know, is very much 

 

00:19:02:22 - 00:19:05:10

based on the work of self. 

 

00:19:05:26 - 00:19:08:11

So so it's like we're very 

 

00:19:08:13 - 00:19:10:18

excited because usually, 

 

00:19:10:20 - 00:19:11:20

you know, we'll do some things 

 

00:19:11:22 - 00:19:13:00

around how to motivate our 

 

00:19:13:02 - 00:19:14:16

teams and how to have difficult 

 

00:19:14:18 - 00:19:15:18

conversations and these 

 

00:19:15:20 - 00:19:16:06

sorts of things. 

 

00:19:16:08 - 00:19:18:03

But it's like now 75% of the 

 

00:19:18:05 - 00:19:21:00

time is you looking at yourself 

 

00:19:21:02 - 00:19:22:14

as the experiment here. 

 

00:19:23:06 - 00:19:25:12

And so any time we start to 

 

00:19:25:14 - 00:19:26:11

create that level of 

 

00:19:26:13 - 00:19:27:12

disequilibrium for 

 

00:19:27:14 - 00:19:29:05

human beings, then it's like, 

 

00:19:30:01 - 00:19:31:00

You want me to do what? 

 

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And I'm like, Yeah, we're going 

 

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to you're going to work 

 

00:19:32:26 - 00:19:33:15

on yourself first. 

 

00:19:33:17 - 00:19:35:10

So but look, all in all, 

 

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I'm going to say, I reckon I 

 

00:19:36:16 - 00:19:37:24

was too critical of 

 

00:19:37:26 - 00:19:39:12

organisations when I was when I 

 

00:19:39:14 - 00:19:39:29

was in them. 

 

00:19:40:29 - 00:19:43:20

But having been outside them 

 

00:19:43:26 - 00:19:45:05

and looking back in, I think 

 

00:19:45:07 - 00:19:47:00

there's a great will for this 

 

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work and particularly I'm going 

 

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to say after the last 

 

00:19:49:12 - 00:19:49:27

two years. 

 

00:19:50:07 - 00:19:51:15

I think the the will is 

 

00:19:51:17 - 00:19:52:25

significantly higher now 

 

00:19:52:27 - 00:19:55:04

because like we haven't seen 

 

00:19:55:06 - 00:19:56:15

the separation of work 

 

00:19:56:18 - 00:19:57:07

and life. 

 

00:19:57:16 - 00:19:59:22

We've seen work as part 

 

00:19:59:24 - 00:20:00:09

of life. 

 

00:20:00:11 - 00:20:02:20

And and there's a real there's 

 

00:20:02:22 - 00:20:04:01

a real want to do it now. 

 

00:20:04:10 - 00:20:06:08

There's still a it's the 

 

00:20:06:10 - 00:20:07:18

challenge around a lot of what 

 

00:20:07:20 - 00:20:08:13

you said before, mate, 

 

00:20:08:15 - 00:20:10:08

around the units of labour and 

 

00:20:10:18 - 00:20:12:14

the technical type things that 

 

00:20:12:22 - 00:20:14:25

and particularly time like this 

 

00:20:14:27 - 00:20:15:21

work takes time. 

 

00:20:15:23 - 00:20:17:11

So you've got to be prepared to 

 

00:20:17:13 - 00:20:19:02

have a bit of a lag time 

 

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because it won't get 

 

00:20:20:22 - 00:20:21:26

better straight away. 

 

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So I still see that 

 

00:20:23:28 - 00:20:25:07

resistance of, well, hang on, 

 

00:20:25:09 - 00:20:26:15

our results haven't got better 

 

00:20:26:17 - 00:20:27:26

and it's two weeks after we've 

 

00:20:27:28 - 00:20:28:19

done the work. 

 

00:20:29:20 - 00:20:30:07

So there's a bit 

 

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of resistance, there's a bit 

 

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of excitement, there's a 

 

00:20:32:11 - 00:20:33:06

bit of trepidation. 

 

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It's all thrown in. 

 

00:20:34:11 - 00:20:34:26

Yeah. 

 

00:20:36:03 - 00:20:37:06

What's your hope? 

 

00:20:38:13 - 00:20:38:28

That 

 

00:20:40:10 - 00:20:40:25

of what? 

 

00:20:40:27 - 00:20:41:19

Your hope of what will be 

 

00:20:41:21 - 00:20:42:07

created? 

 

00:20:42:29 - 00:20:44:27

Because obviously, our hopes 

 

00:20:44:29 - 00:20:46:00

and our dreams and our 

 

00:20:46:02 - 00:20:47:18

aspirations and our visions for 

 

00:20:47:20 - 00:20:48:24

ourselves and the world around 

 

00:20:48:26 - 00:20:50:14

us is what compels us forward. 

 

00:20:50:29 - 00:20:53:06

So what is your hope of what 

 

00:20:53:08 - 00:20:55:03

would be created if we could 

 

00:20:55:05 - 00:20:56:27

cultivate a more human approach 

 

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to leadership and management? 

 

00:21:02:19 - 00:21:03:18

Oh, my. 

 

00:21:03:28 - 00:21:05:13

My first hope is that. 

 

00:21:07:16 - 00:21:08:21

That we look at. 

 

00:21:09:19 - 00:21:12:02

The importance of, I guess, 

 

00:21:12:04 - 00:21:13:07

the success factors, 

 

00:21:13:09 - 00:21:14:12

the importance of the success 

 

00:21:14:14 - 00:21:15:15

factors in a different way. 

 

00:21:15:17 - 00:21:17:15

So I look at it this way now 

 

00:21:17:17 - 00:21:18:03

and I say. 

 

00:21:20:08 - 00:21:22:11

Self-aware, happy, 

 

00:21:22:13 - 00:21:25:09

engaged human beings create 

 

00:21:25:22 - 00:21:27:09

great organizational 

 

00:21:27:11 - 00:21:28:18

and customer outcomes. 

 

00:21:29:10 - 00:21:31:18

And that is the shifted 

 

00:21:31:20 - 00:21:34:09

away from, you know, the what's 

 

00:21:34:11 - 00:21:36:12

the stakeholder value, 

 

00:21:36:14 - 00:21:38:19

what's the shareholder value, 

 

00:21:38:21 - 00:21:41:06

what is the, the customer 

 

00:21:41:08 - 00:21:43:07

experience and sort of making 

 

00:21:43:09 - 00:21:44:10

it more centric around the 

 

00:21:44:12 - 00:21:45:04

human beings that are 

 

00:21:45:06 - 00:21:46:05

in your organization. 

 

00:21:46:07 - 00:21:47:19

So my hope is that we truly 

 

00:21:47:21 - 00:21:49:04

start to live this idea that 

 

00:21:49:24 - 00:21:50:23

our people are the most 

 

00:21:50:25 - 00:21:52:04

important asset in 

 

00:21:52:06 - 00:21:52:21

our business. 

 

00:21:53:06 - 00:21:54:06

That's the big hope. 

 

00:21:54:23 - 00:21:56:00

The other hope is that. 

 

00:21:59:06 - 00:22:01:20

Is that we we can truly see a 

 

00:22:01:22 - 00:22:04:17

shift in in awareness and 

 

00:22:04:19 - 00:22:06:26

in self-awareness, because I 

 

00:22:06:28 - 00:22:08:18

think we're I think we're very 

 

00:22:08:20 - 00:22:10:07

quick to to look outwards. 

 

00:22:11:10 - 00:22:13:06

I talk very much these days 

 

00:22:13:08 - 00:22:14:18

about the mythical creatures of 

 

00:22:14:20 - 00:22:16:09

them invading organizations, 

 

00:22:16:19 - 00:22:17:25

the people it's easy to point 

 

00:22:17:27 - 00:22:18:12

the finger at. 

 

00:22:18:14 - 00:22:19:20

So my other hope is that, 

 

00:22:20:04 - 00:22:20:22

you know, to coin 

 

00:22:20:24 - 00:22:21:27

the Alinsky phrase. 

 

00:22:23:06 - 00:22:24:19

What's your part in the myth is 

 

00:22:24:21 - 00:22:25:23

that people start there. 

 

00:22:26:07 - 00:22:27:02

And I mean that that 

 

00:22:27:08 - 00:22:28:12

with everybody, it's not just 

 

00:22:28:14 - 00:22:29:10

about the managers and 

 

00:22:29:12 - 00:22:31:03

the leaders, is that we create 

 

00:22:31:05 - 00:22:32:20

organizations full of people 

 

00:22:32:22 - 00:22:34:05

who look back towards 

 

00:22:34:07 - 00:22:35:18

themselves first before they 

 

00:22:35:20 - 00:22:38:19

look outwards for to blame and 

 

00:22:38:21 - 00:22:39:21

create a blame culture. 

 

00:22:39:23 - 00:22:40:08

And. 

 

00:22:40:19 - 00:22:41:19

And we end up with. 

 

00:22:42:25 - 00:22:44:15

With organizations that are 

 

00:22:45:02 - 00:22:45:22

full of 

 

00:22:46:08 - 00:22:47:13

different perspectives, 

 

00:22:47:26 - 00:22:49:17

different backgrounds, 

 

00:22:50:03 - 00:22:51:03

different upbringings, 

 

00:22:51:05 - 00:22:52:09

different environments, 

 

00:22:53:24 - 00:22:55:15

but an ability to accept 

 

00:22:56:02 - 00:22:58:08

different perspectives from the 

 

00:22:58:10 - 00:22:59:14

human beings that are in there 

 

00:22:59:16 - 00:23:00:28

rather than, you know, 

 

00:23:01:00 - 00:23:02:02

the rightness that we see 

 

00:23:02:04 - 00:23:02:24

play out today. 

 

00:23:03:13 - 00:23:05:09

That idea of being able to 

 

00:23:05:11 - 00:23:06:25

acknowledge and accept. 

 

00:23:09:02 - 00:23:10:15

Differences in the different 

 

00:23:10:17 - 00:23:11:18

ways that they see the world, 

 

00:23:11:20 - 00:23:12:15

different ways they 

 

00:23:12:17 - 00:23:13:06

approach things, 

 

00:23:13:08 - 00:23:14:06

different belief systems. 

 

00:23:14:08 - 00:23:14:28

They carry different, 

 

00:23:15:01 - 00:23:15:24

different versions of 

 

00:23:15:26 - 00:23:16:12

the truth. 

 

00:23:16:28 - 00:23:17:26

It seems to me that that's 

 

00:23:17:28 - 00:23:19:05

such a critical. 

 

00:23:20:15 - 00:23:22:01

Ingredient for the kind of 

 

00:23:22:03 - 00:23:23:11

leadership that we need because 

 

00:23:23:13 - 00:23:23:28

we know that. 

 

00:23:24:21 - 00:23:26:23

We know that leadership in all 

 

00:23:26:25 - 00:23:28:03

the research tells us whether 

 

00:23:28:05 - 00:23:29:06

it's the work of Kagen or 

 

00:23:29:08 - 00:23:29:26

whether it's the work that 

 

00:23:29:28 - 00:23:30:28

comes from Bob Adams. 

 

00:23:31:08 - 00:23:32:25

It says that the leaders that 

 

00:23:32:27 - 00:23:34:02

get stuck in only being able to 

 

00:23:34:04 - 00:23:35:02

see one way of seeing 

 

00:23:35:04 - 00:23:36:02

the world, one truth, and it's 

 

00:23:36:04 - 00:23:37:06

usually a truth that's given to 

 

00:23:37:08 - 00:23:39:06

them by the system that. 

 

00:23:40:06 - 00:23:40:24

That they. 

 

00:23:41:22 - 00:23:43:18

Are probably capable of 

 

00:23:43:20 - 00:23:45:01

maintaining the system 

 

00:23:45:03 - 00:23:45:20

that they're in. 

 

00:23:46:12 - 00:23:47:13

You know, custodians of the 

 

00:23:47:15 - 00:23:48:26

system maintain the system, 

 

00:23:48:28 - 00:23:50:04

maintaining the status quo, 

 

00:23:50:28 - 00:23:52:05

but they typically are 

 

00:23:52:07 - 00:23:53:29

incapable of transforming the 

 

00:23:54:01 - 00:23:56:00

system and that the sort of 

 

00:23:56:02 - 00:23:57:14

leadership that can transform 

 

00:23:57:16 - 00:23:58:19

the system is leadership that 

 

00:23:58:21 - 00:23:59:18

can see more than 

 

00:23:59:20 - 00:24:00:26

one perspective, more than one 

 

00:24:00:28 - 00:24:01:25

belief system, more than 

 

00:24:01:27 - 00:24:02:16

one truth, in fact, 

 

00:24:02:18 - 00:24:03:11

multiple truths. 

 

00:24:04:06 - 00:24:05:04

And that's the kind of 

 

00:24:05:06 - 00:24:06:26

leadership we need so much more 

 

00:24:06:28 - 00:24:09:05

of today, because we need to 

 

00:24:09:07 - 00:24:10:24

transform the organizations 

 

00:24:10:26 - 00:24:11:25

and the systems. 

 

00:24:12:23 - 00:24:14:10

Which rules these organizations 

 

00:24:14:12 - 00:24:15:03

and rules some of our 

 

00:24:15:05 - 00:24:16:14

communities and rule the way 

 

00:24:16:16 - 00:24:17:25

in which, you know, 

 

00:24:18:04 - 00:24:19:02

the world works. 

 

00:24:19:04 - 00:24:21:09

If we're going to solve for or 

 

00:24:21:11 - 00:24:22:11

make progress with some of the 

 

00:24:22:13 - 00:24:23:13

challenges that we have. 

 

00:24:25:07 - 00:24:26:24

So the interesting thing 

 

00:24:26:26 - 00:24:28:06

for me, Gerrit, is that I. 

 

00:24:29:08 - 00:24:30:18

I talk to people about the 

 

00:24:30:20 - 00:24:33:27

curse of rightness and there is 

 

00:24:33:29 - 00:24:35:25

a there is a need for. 

 

00:24:36:14 - 00:24:37:26

I think most of us, if not all 

 

00:24:37:28 - 00:24:39:09

of us and I think this need 

 

00:24:39:11 - 00:24:40:12

came from an earlier age, 

 

00:24:40:14 - 00:24:41:12

perhaps in the schoolyard, 

 

00:24:41:14 - 00:24:43:02

is that we need to be seen 

 

00:24:43:04 - 00:24:43:22

to be right. 

 

00:24:43:24 - 00:24:47:03

And and I think this is one of 

 

00:24:47:05 - 00:24:48:20

the great inhibitors of 

 

00:24:48:22 - 00:24:50:11

true transformation, is that 

 

00:24:50:13 - 00:24:52:06

when we turn up being right, 

 

00:24:52:19 - 00:24:54:22

that means somebody else has 

 

00:24:54:24 - 00:24:55:09

to be wrong. 

 

00:24:55:23 - 00:24:59:03

And and if we continue to to 

 

00:24:59:05 - 00:25:00:27

live in that world filled with 

 

00:25:00:29 - 00:25:04:01

that curiosity, then we will 

 

00:25:04:03 - 00:25:05:14

continue to get what we get, 

 

00:25:05:16 - 00:25:06:27

which is, I'm going to say 

 

00:25:06:29 - 00:25:07:24

short term 

 

00:25:07:26 - 00:25:09:06

transactional change. 

 

00:25:09:27 - 00:25:10:19

And some of that 

 

00:25:10:21 - 00:25:12:01

change is useful. 

 

00:25:13:04 - 00:25:14:11

But it's not sustainable 

 

00:25:14:13 - 00:25:15:22

because it then means we have 

 

00:25:15:24 - 00:25:16:14

to do another one. 

 

00:25:16:16 - 00:25:17:10

It's a bit like when 

 

00:25:17:12 - 00:25:19:21

organisations go away every 

 

00:25:19:23 - 00:25:21:26

year to do their five year plan 

 

00:25:22:29 - 00:25:24:02

and just think about that for a 

 

00:25:24:04 - 00:25:25:02

minute and it's like they'll 

 

00:25:25:04 - 00:25:25:25

get in there and there'll be 

 

00:25:25:27 - 00:25:27:04

rightness and wrongness and 

 

00:25:27:06 - 00:25:28:01

nice things and you sort 

 

00:25:28:03 - 00:25:30:00

of think, I wonder what would 

 

00:25:30:02 - 00:25:31:02

happen if we listened to all 

 

00:25:31:04 - 00:25:33:27

the voices in the room and we 

 

00:25:33:29 - 00:25:35:11

realised that by taking a bit 

 

00:25:35:13 - 00:25:36:21

more time to do that, we can 

 

00:25:36:23 - 00:25:39:03

truly embrace transformational 

 

00:25:39:05 - 00:25:41:06

change and not just stop, 

 

00:25:41:08 - 00:25:42:12

start transactional change. 

 

00:25:42:14 - 00:25:43:09

So I think there's a bit of 

 

00:25:43:18 - 00:25:44:09

there's a bit of work to 

 

00:25:44:11 - 00:25:45:12

be done, but the first 

 

00:25:45:14 - 00:25:47:11

thing is, is to be able to go, 

 

00:25:48:11 - 00:25:49:13

what if I'm not right? 

 

00:25:51:00 - 00:25:52:18

Because of course being right 

 

00:25:53:14 - 00:25:56:06

in a inflated sense, in a 

 

00:25:56:08 - 00:25:57:05

magnified sense, 

 

00:25:57:07 - 00:25:58:23

can lead to righteousness. 

 

00:25:59:09 - 00:25:59:24

And of course, 

 

00:25:59:26 - 00:26:01:05

righteousness often leads 

 

00:26:01:07 - 00:26:04:06

to ignorance, hatred. 

 

00:26:05:03 - 00:26:05:18

And. 

 

00:26:06:18 - 00:26:07:14

And that's obviously a 

 

00:26:07:16 - 00:26:08:15

cause of suffering. 

 

00:26:08:17 - 00:26:10:01

It's it's one of the you know, 

 

00:26:10:03 - 00:26:12:15

those those aspects of being 

 

00:26:12:17 - 00:26:14:26

human are the undesirable 

 

00:26:14:28 - 00:26:16:05

aspects of being human. 

 

00:26:16:24 - 00:26:19:07

Does your work acknowledge or 

 

00:26:19:09 - 00:26:20:23

directly address those other 

 

00:26:20:25 - 00:26:22:02

aspects of being human that are 

 

00:26:22:04 - 00:26:23:20

destructive and cause cause 

 

00:26:23:22 - 00:26:24:08

suffering? 

 

00:26:26:05 - 00:26:26:20

Yes. 

 

00:26:26:22 - 00:26:27:16

It does not tell you how. 

 

00:26:27:18 - 00:26:28:18

It does it very much. 

 

00:26:30:04 - 00:26:31:29

I used myself as the case study 

 

00:26:32:01 - 00:26:32:20

because I think it's 

 

00:26:32:22 - 00:26:33:22

really important that. 

 

00:26:36:10 - 00:26:38:01

I've lived two lives in 

 

00:26:38:03 - 00:26:39:14

the workplace, one being what I 

 

00:26:39:16 - 00:26:41:03

call bad mark and one being 

 

00:26:41:05 - 00:26:42:05

what I call good Mark. 

 

00:26:42:07 - 00:26:46:19

And so showing how even when 

 

00:26:46:21 - 00:26:47:18

you think you're turning out 

 

00:26:47:20 - 00:26:48:26

with good intention to do 

 

00:26:48:28 - 00:26:49:13

good work, 

 

00:26:49:15 - 00:26:50:00

you're 

 

00:26:50:02 - 00:26:51:03

actually being destructive. 

 

00:26:51:20 - 00:26:52:26

And I think it's really 

 

00:26:52:28 - 00:26:54:16

important that we see the whole 

 

00:26:54:18 - 00:26:57:18

human because my kids will 

 

00:26:57:20 - 00:26:58:06

often say to me, 

 

00:26:58:08 - 00:26:59:14

they're adults now, but they'll 

 

00:26:59:16 - 00:27:00:18

say something and they'll say 

 

00:27:00:20 - 00:27:02:04

to me, Hashtag human manager, 

 

00:27:02:20 - 00:27:03:05

you know? 

 

00:27:03:07 - 00:27:04:15

And it's like just to remind me 

 

00:27:04:17 - 00:27:05:23

that I can still be. 

 

00:27:06:17 - 00:27:08:08

It time's not how I'm. 

 

00:27:09:13 - 00:27:11:12

Telling other people or saying 

 

00:27:11:14 - 00:27:11:29

to other people that 

 

00:27:12:01 - 00:27:12:16

they should be. 

 

00:27:12:18 - 00:27:14:01

So I think it's important to 

 

00:27:14:03 - 00:27:15:04

acknowledge it because this 

 

00:27:15:06 - 00:27:16:10

isn't about perfection. 

 

00:27:16:27 - 00:27:17:26

And I think a lot of us 

 

00:27:17:28 - 00:27:18:27

are after perfection. 

 

00:27:18:29 - 00:27:19:14

So 

 

00:27:20:28 - 00:27:23:00

we need to appreciate that. 

 

00:27:24:11 - 00:27:25:20

It's part of the maturation 

 

00:27:25:22 - 00:27:26:26

that I'll call it for myself. 

 

00:27:26:28 - 00:27:28:04

I actually think it was really 

 

00:27:28:06 - 00:27:29:27

good year to go through the bad 

 

00:27:29:29 - 00:27:31:21

mock phase and to be able to 

 

00:27:31:23 - 00:27:33:09

talk about that and not be 

 

00:27:33:11 - 00:27:34:14

proud of it, but be able to 

 

00:27:34:16 - 00:27:36:04

talk and help others to learn 

 

00:27:36:06 - 00:27:38:09

from it that we are that we are 

 

00:27:38:11 - 00:27:39:20

a fully if we are a fully 

 

00:27:39:22 - 00:27:40:25

rounded human being, we would 

 

00:27:40:27 - 00:27:42:10

have all dipped our toe into 

 

00:27:42:12 - 00:27:44:15

that that sort of darker space 

 

00:27:44:17 - 00:27:45:17

that you mentioned earlier. 

 

00:27:47:24 - 00:27:48:29

And if we are unable to. 

 

00:27:50:02 - 00:27:51:15

Unable to acknowledge that dark 

 

00:27:51:17 - 00:27:52:26

space within us and the dark 

 

00:27:52:28 - 00:27:53:13

space that we can 

 

00:27:53:15 - 00:27:54:19

potentially occupy, then we 

 

00:27:54:21 - 00:27:56:02

can't really understand what it 

 

00:27:56:04 - 00:27:56:27

means to be human. 

 

00:27:58:18 - 00:28:00:16

Well, we can understand if we 

 

00:28:00:18 - 00:28:01:08

can understand 

 

00:28:01:10 - 00:28:02:00

that for ourselves. 

 

00:28:02:02 - 00:28:03:09

This is, I think, a really 

 

00:28:03:11 - 00:28:04:14

important point is that. 

 

00:28:05:22 - 00:28:07:06

I really, truly believe in 

 

00:28:07:08 - 00:28:08:24

order to lead others, we must 

 

00:28:08:26 - 00:28:11:11

first of all lead self to. 

 

00:28:11:13 - 00:28:12:13

In order to know others, 

 

00:28:12:15 - 00:28:13:17

we must know self. 

 

00:28:13:19 - 00:28:14:21

And again, this is 

 

00:28:14:23 - 00:28:15:21

the hardest work. 

 

00:28:15:23 - 00:28:16:08

So 

 

00:28:17:25 - 00:28:19:12

I'd suggest that people that, 

 

00:28:19:14 - 00:28:20:19

you know, doing it and I think 

 

00:28:20:21 - 00:28:21:16

there are some really good ones 

 

00:28:21:18 - 00:28:22:08

out there but doing a 

 

00:28:22:10 - 00:28:23:16

psychometric profile and 

 

00:28:23:18 - 00:28:25:11

then saying, Well, this is me, 

 

00:28:25:19 - 00:28:26:22

we need to do more 

 

00:28:26:24 - 00:28:27:14

work than that. 

 

00:28:27:16 - 00:28:29:14

And I think this is where this 

 

00:28:30:00 - 00:28:31:09

this is where organisations 

 

00:28:31:11 - 00:28:32:20

don't transform is because they 

 

00:28:32:22 - 00:28:34:02

don't spend enough time on the 

 

00:28:34:04 - 00:28:34:27

work of self. 

 

00:28:35:29 - 00:28:37:26

They try and take a box on that 

 

00:28:37:28 - 00:28:39:00

and then move into the other 

 

00:28:39:02 - 00:28:42:05

work that we're, we're more 

 

00:28:42:07 - 00:28:43:20

comfortable with but we are 

 

00:28:43:22 - 00:28:46:03

more capable of doing because 

 

00:28:46:05 - 00:28:47:01

we've learnt that all 

 

00:28:47:03 - 00:28:47:18

the way through. 

 

00:28:47:20 - 00:28:50:02

So, you know, spending time on 

 

00:28:50:11 - 00:28:52:20

looking at the whole human and 

 

00:28:52:22 - 00:28:53:25

the good and bad that comes 

 

00:28:53:27 - 00:28:55:10

with that and particularly in 

 

00:28:55:12 - 00:28:57:26

yourself I think is, is both 

 

00:28:57:28 - 00:28:59:06

terrifying and liberating at 

 

00:28:59:08 - 00:28:59:25

the same time. 

 

00:29:00:06 - 00:29:02:00

Yeah, it reminds me of the, 

 

00:29:02:24 - 00:29:05:02

the interview that a 

 

00:29:05:07 - 00:29:06:20

journalist had with. 

 

00:29:08:04 - 00:29:10:10

Gandhi in the period, 

 

00:29:10:14 - 00:29:11:10

the period in which he was 

 

00:29:11:12 - 00:29:12:17

seeking to lead the people of 

 

00:29:12:19 - 00:29:14:07

India out from colonial rule 

 

00:29:14:09 - 00:29:15:07

and into democracy and 

 

00:29:15:19 - 00:29:16:26

freedom and independence. 

 

00:29:18:04 - 00:29:19:00

And it was right in the middle 

 

00:29:19:02 - 00:29:19:18

of the struggle. 

 

00:29:19:20 - 00:29:20:16

And this journalist set with 

 

00:29:20:18 - 00:29:22:28

him in his home village, 

 

00:29:23:00 - 00:29:24:07

and they were just sitting 

 

00:29:24:09 - 00:29:24:28

on the ground. 

 

00:29:25:23 - 00:29:27:24

And Gandhi was dressed in just 

 

00:29:27:26 - 00:29:30:01

very simple cloth. 

 

00:29:30:12 - 00:29:31:15

And the journalist said 

 

00:29:31:17 - 00:29:32:09

to him, asked him 

 

00:29:32:11 - 00:29:34:13

the question, What's your 

 

00:29:34:15 - 00:29:35:26

greatest challenge? 

 

00:29:37:01 - 00:29:38:15

And if you were a betting man, 

 

00:29:39:02 - 00:29:40:07

you would assume that he's 

 

00:29:40:09 - 00:29:41:03

going to respond with. 

 

00:29:41:05 - 00:29:42:05

Well, my greatest challenge is 

 

00:29:42:07 - 00:29:43:09

to continue to play a role in 

 

00:29:43:11 - 00:29:44:13

leading the people of India out 

 

00:29:44:15 - 00:29:45:08

from colonial rule, 

 

00:29:45:10 - 00:29:45:25

etc.

 

00:29:45:27 - 00:29:46:12

, etc.

 

00:29:46:14 - 00:29:46:29

 

00:29:47:01 - 00:29:47:16

But he didn't. 

 

00:29:47:18 - 00:29:49:04

He responded with the words, 

 

00:29:49:28 - 00:29:51:08

My greatest battle 

 

00:29:51:16 - 00:29:52:27

lies within myself. 

 

00:29:54:13 - 00:29:54:28

Yep. 

 

00:29:55:15 - 00:29:57:06

So when it comes to, you know, 

 

00:29:57:08 - 00:29:59:11

obviously self-awareness and 

 

00:29:59:13 - 00:30:03:07

self-acceptance are part of the 

 

00:30:03:09 - 00:30:04:21

conditions that we need to 

 

00:30:04:23 - 00:30:07:12

cultivate more humanness 

 

00:30:07:14 - 00:30:08:09

in our leadership. 

 

00:30:08:27 - 00:30:10:14

What are the if we do want to 

 

00:30:10:16 - 00:30:11:19

be more human at work? 

 

00:30:11:21 - 00:30:13:00

What other ingredients or 

 

00:30:13:02 - 00:30:14:09

conditions do you feel are the 

 

00:30:14:11 - 00:30:15:18

most critical that we need to 

 

00:30:15:20 - 00:30:16:05

cultivate? 

 

00:30:19:21 - 00:30:22:07

I think the acceptance that we 

 

00:30:22:09 - 00:30:26:02

are we are flawed is a is a 

 

00:30:26:04 - 00:30:27:21

real starting point because, 

 

00:30:27:23 - 00:30:29:12

you know, again, if I look at 

 

00:30:29:21 - 00:30:30:25

having been a schoolteacher 

 

00:30:30:27 - 00:30:31:12

looking at the 

 

00:30:31:14 - 00:30:32:12

education system, 

 

00:30:32:14 - 00:30:33:06

it's all about. 

 

00:30:35:00 - 00:30:36:09

Weaknesses and fixing 

 

00:30:36:11 - 00:30:37:18

weaknesses and all those 

 

00:30:37:20 - 00:30:38:10

sorts of things. 

 

00:30:38:12 - 00:30:40:25

And then we sort of get to a 

 

00:30:40:27 - 00:30:41:21

point where we don't want to 

 

00:30:41:23 - 00:30:42:23

show any of those things. 

 

00:30:42:25 - 00:30:44:00

So I think the acceptance of 

 

00:30:44:02 - 00:30:45:25

self-acceptance that I turn up 

 

00:30:46:23 - 00:30:48:06

as a flawed human being, 

 

00:30:48:17 - 00:30:50:01

regardless of my position of 

 

00:30:50:03 - 00:30:52:23

power in the hierarchy, I think 

 

00:30:52:25 - 00:30:54:25

that's a really that's that to 

 

00:30:54:27 - 00:30:55:24

me is like the. 

 

00:30:56:25 - 00:30:58:06

That's that's the invitation 

 

00:30:58:08 - 00:30:58:23

into the game. 

 

00:30:59:07 - 00:31:00:24

We've got to be able to do that 

 

00:31:00:26 - 00:31:02:10

because particularly if we are 

 

00:31:02:12 - 00:31:03:18

in a position in some position 

 

00:31:03:20 - 00:31:06:03

of power, is that others will. 

 

00:31:07:22 - 00:31:08:27

We'll take some inspiration 

 

00:31:08:29 - 00:31:10:21

from that and I can 

 

00:31:10:23 - 00:31:12:14

follow then, whereas if we're a 

 

00:31:12:16 - 00:31:13:22

bit closed off from those sorts 

 

00:31:13:24 - 00:31:14:19

of things, so we can't 

 

00:31:14:21 - 00:31:15:14

be closed off. 

 

00:31:15:16 - 00:31:16:10

We can't be. 

 

00:31:17:11 - 00:31:18:11

We can't not 

 

00:31:18:13 - 00:31:19:18

show vulnerability, you know? 

 

00:31:19:23 - 00:31:20:24

You know, vulnerability has 

 

00:31:20:26 - 00:31:21:27

been seen as traditionally 

 

00:31:21:29 - 00:31:22:14

as a weakness. 

 

00:31:22:16 - 00:31:23:19

So I think the other condition 

 

00:31:23:21 - 00:31:24:26

is that we we can 

 

00:31:24:28 - 00:31:25:21

be vulnerable. 

 

00:31:26:09 - 00:31:27:12

I think there's another piece 

 

00:31:27:14 - 00:31:28:18

here around boundaries that 

 

00:31:28:20 - 00:31:31:03

we've also got to be aware that 

 

00:31:31:19 - 00:31:32:24

not everybody's at the same 

 

00:31:32:26 - 00:31:35:05

place on, let's call it 

 

00:31:35:07 - 00:31:36:14

their humanness, even though we 

 

00:31:36:16 - 00:31:38:23

may have all of the similar 

 

00:31:38:25 - 00:31:40:12

components that make us human, 

 

00:31:40:14 - 00:31:42:00

as in physiological components 

 

00:31:42:02 - 00:31:43:00

that we're all in a different 

 

00:31:43:22 - 00:31:46:00

page from, from an experience 

 

00:31:46:02 - 00:31:47:19

maturity level, and that we 

 

00:31:47:27 - 00:31:51:25

that we accept that not 

 

00:31:51:27 - 00:31:52:24

everybody is exactly 

 

00:31:52:26 - 00:31:53:12

where we are. 

 

00:31:53:16 - 00:31:54:01

I think that's 

 

00:31:54:03 - 00:31:54:22

really important. 

 

00:31:56:09 - 00:31:57:11

What else would it be? 

 

00:31:57:13 - 00:31:58:02

I think. 

 

00:32:00:10 - 00:32:01:07

I think the other one for 

 

00:32:01:09 - 00:32:02:06

me is. 

 

00:32:04:10 - 00:32:07:09

The ability to be resilient. 

 

00:32:07:11 - 00:32:08:22

And I like to use these three 

 

00:32:08:24 - 00:32:10:15

words Hold your nerve, 

 

00:32:10:19 - 00:32:12:07

because this work is 

 

00:32:12:09 - 00:32:12:29

a long game. 

 

00:32:13:19 - 00:32:14:25

And I think one of the reasons 

 

00:32:14:27 - 00:32:16:04

that we aren't making the 

 

00:32:16:06 - 00:32:17:21

progress that we're capable of 

 

00:32:17:23 - 00:32:19:09

making is that we get caught in 

 

00:32:19:11 - 00:32:20:15

the short termism of 

 

00:32:21:06 - 00:32:22:09

next week's results. 

 

00:32:22:11 - 00:32:23:16

The Quarterly Business Review, 

 

00:32:23:20 - 00:32:24:27

all things that are important 

 

00:32:25:22 - 00:32:27:20

as I guess, measures of health 

 

00:32:27:22 - 00:32:28:18

of the organization. 

 

00:32:28:20 - 00:32:30:19

But there will be times when 

 

00:32:30:21 - 00:32:32:04

things when you're being human 

 

00:32:32:06 - 00:32:33:11

actually aren't you're not 

 

00:32:33:13 - 00:32:35:22

seeing the change as 

 

00:32:35:24 - 00:32:36:23

immediately as you'd like. 

 

00:32:36:25 - 00:32:37:18

But you've got to sit there 

 

00:32:37:20 - 00:32:39:09

and go, hold your nerve. 

 

00:32:40:22 - 00:32:41:09

And I think that's 

 

00:32:41:11 - 00:32:42:03

important as well. 

 

00:32:45:11 - 00:32:48:23

Today I was talking to someone 

 

00:32:48:25 - 00:32:49:28

who was providing me with a 

 

00:32:50:00 - 00:32:51:21

briefing on an 

 

00:32:51:23 - 00:32:53:13

executive leadership team. 

 

00:32:54:22 - 00:32:58:10

Who need to do some work on the 

 

00:32:58:12 - 00:32:59:04

leadership and 

 

00:32:59:06 - 00:33:00:06

the collective leadership. 

 

00:33:01:06 - 00:33:02:23

What was described to me was 

 

00:33:02:27 - 00:33:04:21

this team during COVID. 

 

00:33:05:29 - 00:33:07:23

Recognize the challenges that 

 

00:33:07:25 - 00:33:08:28

was presented to everyone who 

 

00:33:09:00 - 00:33:10:08

worked in their organization. 

 

00:33:11:15 - 00:33:12:00

As well as their 

 

00:33:12:02 - 00:33:12:29

customers and. 

 

00:33:13:28 - 00:33:15:07

And adopted a much 

 

00:33:15:09 - 00:33:17:05

more caring, connected. 

 

00:33:19:13 - 00:33:20:08

Empathetic, 

 

00:33:20:15 - 00:33:22:15

compassionate, flexible. 

 

00:33:23:03 - 00:33:24:00

Open minded. 

 

00:33:25:17 - 00:33:28:18

Uh, approach and kind of less. 

 

00:33:28:28 - 00:33:29:26

More patience, 

 

00:33:29:28 - 00:33:30:27

less impatience. 

 

00:33:32:05 - 00:33:32:21

And. 

 

00:33:34:04 - 00:33:35:12

What this person was sharing 

 

00:33:35:14 - 00:33:36:28

with me is that they just had 

 

00:33:37:00 - 00:33:38:03

some engagement data which 

 

00:33:38:05 - 00:33:40:06

actually came back recently 

 

00:33:40:08 - 00:33:41:23

which said, well, they've lost 

 

00:33:41:25 - 00:33:43:01

that because people are now 

 

00:33:43:03 - 00:33:44:15

saying via the engagement data 

 

00:33:44:17 - 00:33:46:04

that this is a group 

 

00:33:46:06 - 00:33:47:00

of leaders, that people are 

 

00:33:47:02 - 00:33:49:00

really wondering who they are 

 

00:33:49:02 - 00:33:50:02

and what they really believe. 

 

00:33:50:04 - 00:33:50:19

And they're just like they're 

 

00:33:50:21 - 00:33:52:00

disconnected now from them and 

 

00:33:52:02 - 00:33:53:27

they what they represent is 

 

00:33:53:29 - 00:33:55:07

something which is inconsistent 

 

00:33:55:09 - 00:33:56:18

with the organisation. 

 

00:33:56:20 - 00:33:57:12

So confidence in the 

 

00:33:57:14 - 00:33:58:03

organisation is 

 

00:33:58:05 - 00:34:00:16

diminished somewhat and. 

 

00:34:02:13 - 00:34:03:28

Are you seeing some kind of 

 

00:34:04:00 - 00:34:05:23

snapback in organizations away 

 

00:34:05:25 - 00:34:08:28

from a human approach to back 

 

00:34:09:00 - 00:34:10:10

towards that kind of less human 

 

00:34:10:12 - 00:34:12:17

approach as the imperative for 

 

00:34:12:19 - 00:34:14:02

performance and the drive for 

 

00:34:14:04 - 00:34:14:19

results? 

 

00:34:14:21 - 00:34:15:22

And the concern about if we're 

 

00:34:15:24 - 00:34:16:27

not the first out of the blocks 

 

00:34:16:29 - 00:34:18:25

post-COVID than our competitors 

 

00:34:18:26 - 00:34:20:14

will will take us out. 

 

00:34:22:07 - 00:34:24:10

I reckon I'm seeing both, 

 

00:34:24:12 - 00:34:25:18

but starting to see a little 

 

00:34:25:20 - 00:34:26:11

bit more of what you've 

 

00:34:26:13 - 00:34:27:29

just described and. 

 

00:34:29:18 - 00:34:32:12

Look, I always caution 

 

00:34:32:14 - 00:34:34:12

organizations I work with to be 

 

00:34:34:14 - 00:34:36:00

looking into the dark shadows 

 

00:34:36:02 - 00:34:37:07

where the old system 

 

00:34:37:09 - 00:34:37:25

is lurking. 

 

00:34:38:12 - 00:34:39:15

Because that's what it does. 

 

00:34:39:17 - 00:34:40:02

And it's. 

 

00:34:41:02 - 00:34:42:19

It's always there, even in the 

 

00:34:42:21 - 00:34:44:01

organizations that have got 

 

00:34:44:03 - 00:34:45:28

close to nailing this this 

 

00:34:46:00 - 00:34:46:26

thing still lurking 

 

00:34:46:28 - 00:34:47:19

in the shadows. 

 

00:34:47:21 - 00:34:50:09

Because I think the old system 

 

00:34:50:11 - 00:34:51:10

and the old system means 

 

00:34:51:12 - 00:34:52:18

the humans, some of the humans 

 

00:34:52:20 - 00:34:53:20

that are in the old system, 

 

00:34:53:22 - 00:34:54:17

because that's what 

 

00:34:54:19 - 00:34:55:12

the system is. 

 

00:34:57:05 - 00:34:59:05

They still claim that their 

 

00:34:59:07 - 00:35:01:29

rightful position is at the top 

 

00:35:02:01 - 00:35:03:17

of the organization, as in we 

 

00:35:03:19 - 00:35:04:17

need to go back to what we 

 

00:35:04:19 - 00:35:05:04

used to do. 

 

00:35:05:06 - 00:35:05:21

So 

 

00:35:07:03 - 00:35:09:06

I reckon this thing's popping 

 

00:35:09:08 - 00:35:10:27

its head back out of the 

 

00:35:10:29 - 00:35:13:08

shadows now, and it's doing it 

 

00:35:13:10 - 00:35:14:24

at different paces because it's 

 

00:35:14:26 - 00:35:16:00

very clever as well. 

 

00:35:16:11 - 00:35:18:22

It sort of knows when to be the 

 

00:35:18:24 - 00:35:19:29

wolf in sheep's clothing and 

 

00:35:20:01 - 00:35:20:18

then it knows when to 

 

00:35:20:20 - 00:35:21:12

bear its teeth. 

 

00:35:21:14 - 00:35:22:18

And I think that I'm seeing 

 

00:35:22:20 - 00:35:24:10

everything from the 

 

00:35:24:12 - 00:35:27:02

masquerading of humanity in our 

 

00:35:27:04 - 00:35:28:20

organisation now to 

 

00:35:29:03 - 00:35:30:07

to fully blown. 

 

00:35:30:20 - 00:35:31:29

Get back in the office. 

 

00:35:32:22 - 00:35:33:26

We're in control. 

 

00:35:35:00 - 00:35:35:27

You want your job. 

 

00:35:36:28 - 00:35:38:15

You know, the keyboard 

 

00:35:38:17 - 00:35:39:23

monitoring stuff that went on 

 

00:35:39:25 - 00:35:40:24

during it as well. 

 

00:35:41:03 - 00:35:41:18

So I think I'm 

 

00:35:41:20 - 00:35:43:17

seeing everything, but I'm also 

 

00:35:43:19 - 00:35:44:25

seeing those organizations that 

 

00:35:44:27 - 00:35:46:21

have and I think some of them 

 

00:35:46:23 - 00:35:48:24

by accident, have transformed. 

 

00:35:50:12 - 00:35:52:06

And that's where I hold the 

 

00:35:52:08 - 00:35:54:12

hope is that we got to hear 

 

00:35:54:14 - 00:35:56:23

more of these stories of what 

 

00:35:56:25 - 00:35:57:10

are hear the good 

 

00:35:57:12 - 00:35:57:27

news stories. 

 

00:35:57:29 - 00:35:58:19

One of the things we're great 

 

00:35:58:21 - 00:35:59:09

at doing, you know, 

 

00:35:59:11 - 00:36:00:06

this is we're good. 

 

00:36:01:06 - 00:36:02:01

We're good at having a royal 

 

00:36:02:03 - 00:36:03:03

commission when there's a bit 

 

00:36:03:05 - 00:36:03:24

of bad news. 

 

00:36:03:26 - 00:36:04:26

But when there's good news, 

 

00:36:04:28 - 00:36:05:24

we just go, Oh, that was 

 

00:36:05:26 - 00:36:06:11

a good week. 

 

00:36:06:13 - 00:36:06:28

Let's move on. 

 

00:36:07:00 - 00:36:08:08

I think we've got to highlight 

 

00:36:08:10 - 00:36:09:20

the really the good ones. 

 

00:36:09:22 - 00:36:10:27

I'll say one other thing, too. 

 

00:36:10:29 - 00:36:12:00

I was asked a lot during the 

 

00:36:12:02 - 00:36:13:05

last two years about. 

 

00:36:15:10 - 00:36:16:24

How do we be more human in the 

 

00:36:16:26 - 00:36:17:13

workplace? 

 

00:36:19:07 - 00:36:20:21

And I said, just remove. 

 

00:36:22:11 - 00:36:25:04

The old idea of more human, 

 

00:36:25:06 - 00:36:26:28

like just be human and go back 

 

00:36:27:00 - 00:36:28:03

to what it is to be human, 

 

00:36:28:05 - 00:36:29:11

which I think is what we saw 

 

00:36:29:18 - 00:36:30:11

here at the start of 

 

00:36:30:13 - 00:36:32:23

the pandemic, was, I guess, 

 

00:36:32:25 - 00:36:35:19

this groundswell of of care and 

 

00:36:35:21 - 00:36:37:04

compassion and empathy 

 

00:36:37:22 - 00:36:40:05

and flexibility and. 

 

00:36:41:08 - 00:36:43:15

And I just I hope we don't lose 

 

00:36:43:17 - 00:36:45:06

that to this evil thing lurking 

 

00:36:45:08 - 00:36:45:27

in the shadows. 

 

00:36:46:19 - 00:36:47:04

Yeah. 

 

00:36:47:25 - 00:36:49:20

It seems to me that, you know, 

 

00:36:49:22 - 00:36:52:21

COVID was an acute situation. 

 

00:36:53:02 - 00:36:54:21

Pandemic was an acute situation 

 

00:36:54:23 - 00:36:55:23

in which we were able to 

 

00:36:55:25 - 00:36:57:25

recognize it and learn about 

 

00:36:57:27 - 00:36:58:26

compassion and empathy and 

 

00:36:58:28 - 00:36:59:22

connection and care 

 

00:36:59:24 - 00:37:00:24

and being human. 

 

00:37:02:10 - 00:37:04:17

And however, when the when the 

 

00:37:04:19 - 00:37:05:19

challenges sit out in the 

 

00:37:05:21 - 00:37:08:14

system or many of them at, 

 

00:37:08:16 - 00:37:09:24

you know, inequality, 

 

00:37:10:17 - 00:37:13:21

disparity, just injustice. 

 

00:37:15:22 - 00:37:17:15

Climate change, which is 

 

00:37:17:17 - 00:37:19:02

effectively just a, you know, 

 

00:37:19:04 - 00:37:20:28

a lack of acknowledgement that 

 

00:37:21:13 - 00:37:22:18

our humanity is actually 

 

00:37:22:20 - 00:37:23:27

dependent upon the earth in 

 

00:37:23:29 - 00:37:25:00

which we pursue. 

 

00:37:25:02 - 00:37:25:26

And, you know, 

 

00:37:25:28 - 00:37:27:09

the the unfortunate, 

 

00:37:27:11 - 00:37:30:09

unfettered economic system that 

 

00:37:30:11 - 00:37:32:21

we use has kind of left us in a 

 

00:37:33:08 - 00:37:33:23

particularly 

 

00:37:33:25 - 00:37:34:13

difficult position. 

 

00:37:34:18 - 00:37:35:15

All of these things are just 

 

00:37:35:17 - 00:37:36:13

out there humming away. 

 

00:37:36:15 - 00:37:37:10

But when they're at 

 

00:37:37:12 - 00:37:38:00

that low level. 

 

00:37:38:02 - 00:37:38:17

Hum. 

 

00:37:39:19 - 00:37:40:12

They seem like they're not 

 

00:37:40:14 - 00:37:42:03

enough to catalyze 

 

00:37:42:05 - 00:37:43:17

that that humanity. 

 

00:37:44:02 - 00:37:45:06

And we need to somehow, 

 

00:37:45:18 - 00:37:46:17

you know, turn up the heat. 

 

00:37:47:24 - 00:37:48:18

You know, accept that that 

 

00:37:48:20 - 00:37:51:04

being human is actually part 

 

00:37:51:06 - 00:37:52:23

of the answer. 

 

00:37:54:07 - 00:37:55:05

Because many of the problems 

 

00:37:55:07 - 00:37:56:01

that we've got is because we 

 

00:37:56:03 - 00:37:57:04

have become so disconnected 

 

00:37:57:06 - 00:37:58:00

either from each other 

 

00:37:58:09 - 00:37:59:11

or disconnected from. 

 

00:38:00:24 - 00:38:01:10

The world. 

 

00:38:02:21 - 00:38:05:13

You know, look at the hums. 

 

00:38:05:15 - 00:38:06:06

Not loud enough. 

 

00:38:06:10 - 00:38:07:12

It's almost like. 

 

00:38:08:24 - 00:38:09:27

Like it's got to be. 

 

00:38:11:19 - 00:38:13:17

It's got to be such a loud bang 

 

00:38:13:25 - 00:38:15:15

that sort of shakes people from 

 

00:38:15:17 - 00:38:16:26

their foundations, which is 

 

00:38:16:28 - 00:38:18:04

what Covid's has done. 

 

00:38:21:07 - 00:38:22:12

And then you sort of think, 

 

00:38:22:17 - 00:38:23:12

what's next? 

 

00:38:24:06 - 00:38:25:18

Like, we're always looking for 

 

00:38:25:20 - 00:38:27:08

the next big thing, but we 

 

00:38:27:10 - 00:38:28:04

should be listening to 

 

00:38:28:06 - 00:38:28:21

the hum. 

 

00:38:29:03 - 00:38:29:18

Mm hmm. 

 

00:38:29:20 - 00:38:30:15

And you know that little hammy 

 

00:38:30:17 - 00:38:31:02

noise? 

 

00:38:31:04 - 00:38:31:19

You said it before 

 

00:38:31:21 - 00:38:32:06

we were talking. 

 

00:38:32:08 - 00:38:33:15

I can hear a bit of an echo in 

 

00:38:33:17 - 00:38:35:08

your microphone, and it's just 

 

00:38:35:10 - 00:38:37:06

like it's not that big, 

 

00:38:37:08 - 00:38:38:05

but it's irritating. 

 

00:38:38:29 - 00:38:40:14

And I reckon that's where a lot 

 

00:38:40:16 - 00:38:41:09

of this work is. 

 

00:38:41:11 - 00:38:42:17

It doesn't have to be 

 

00:38:43:03 - 00:38:44:10

the big change. 

 

00:38:45:00 - 00:38:46:27

It's listening for the hum 

 

00:38:47:20 - 00:38:49:17

and going, that's irritating 

 

00:38:49:19 - 00:38:51:28

enough now that we need to 

 

00:38:52:06 - 00:38:54:07

reshape that, we need to do 

 

00:38:54:09 - 00:38:55:15

something about the volume. 

 

00:38:57:17 - 00:38:58:17

But I think we miss those 

 

00:38:58:19 - 00:39:00:11

things because we like to think 

 

00:39:00:13 - 00:39:01:03

we're going to get the 

 

00:39:01:05 - 00:39:01:24

next big thing. 

 

00:39:01:26 - 00:39:03:16

And that's the that's the 

 

00:39:03:18 - 00:39:05:29

question I say to people is the 

 

00:39:06:01 - 00:39:07:26

shift in the switch to human 

 

00:39:07:28 - 00:39:09:03

isn't as big as what. 

 

00:39:10:13 - 00:39:11:15

It's maybe it's not as big as 

 

00:39:11:17 - 00:39:13:05

what people need it to be so 

 

00:39:13:07 - 00:39:15:01

that they can stand out. 

 

00:39:15:03 - 00:39:16:27

It's actually it's just like 

 

00:39:16:29 - 00:39:18:00

actually getting back in the 

 

00:39:18:02 - 00:39:19:24

touch with with who we are. 

 

00:39:20:16 - 00:39:21:03

It's like us 

 

00:39:21:05 - 00:39:22:02

having this conversation. 

 

00:39:22:04 - 00:39:22:21

We're connecting, 

 

00:39:22:23 - 00:39:24:11

we're sharing story, 

 

00:39:24:29 - 00:39:26:12

we're sharing some ideas. 

 

00:39:26:26 - 00:39:28:09

We'll both come away, I think. 

 

00:39:28:11 - 00:39:29:15

I hope the better for it. 

 

00:39:29:29 - 00:39:30:14

Mm. 

 

00:39:30:25 - 00:39:32:03

But we haven't split the atom 

 

00:39:32:27 - 00:39:33:22

and we didn't have to. 

 

00:39:34:11 - 00:39:34:26

Mhm. 

 

00:39:36:06 - 00:39:37:04

So what's a good place? 

 

00:39:37:06 - 00:39:38:00

With that in mind, what's a 

 

00:39:38:02 - 00:39:39:21

good place for leaders to start

 

00:39:39:23 - 00:39:40:08

 

00:39:40:11 - 00:39:41:12

If there's something someone 

 

00:39:41:14 - 00:39:42:24

listening to our conversation 

 

00:39:42:26 - 00:39:44:00

and saying, I want to cultivate 

 

00:39:44:02 - 00:39:45:09

more humanity in my work. 

 

00:39:46:02 - 00:39:47:21

What would be just a few simple 

 

00:39:47:23 - 00:39:48:18

things that they could do to 

 

00:39:48:20 - 00:39:49:05

start? 

 

00:39:50:12 - 00:39:51:25

Okay, so it has to 

 

00:39:51:27 - 00:39:52:27

start with themselves. 

 

00:39:53:07 - 00:39:54:20

That's that's the key. 

 

00:39:54:22 - 00:39:57:13

It's like and I always go with 

 

00:39:58:20 - 00:40:00:00

what I call human evolution. 

 

00:40:00:09 - 00:40:04:06

So it's it's combining your to 

 

00:40:04:08 - 00:40:05:13

do list with what I call it 

 

00:40:05:15 - 00:40:06:08

to be list. 

 

00:40:06:10 - 00:40:07:16

And this whole idea of 

 

00:40:07:18 - 00:40:09:25

turning up, teaming up to each 

 

00:40:09:27 - 00:40:11:20

engagement and asking yourself 

 

00:40:11:22 - 00:40:12:29

the question of how you choose 

 

00:40:13:01 - 00:40:14:20

to be right now, how you 

 

00:40:14:22 - 00:40:15:13

choose to be. 

 

00:40:15:23 - 00:40:16:11

When we come onto 

 

00:40:16:13 - 00:40:17:28

this podcast, what used to be 

 

00:40:18:00 - 00:40:18:27

when I walk in the door 

 

00:40:18:29 - 00:40:20:10

at home, how I choose to be 

 

00:40:20:22 - 00:40:22:12

when I engage my clients rather 

 

00:40:22:14 - 00:40:24:07

than I now I had to do this 

 

00:40:24:09 - 00:40:27:00

podcast and I know I could get 

 

00:40:27:02 - 00:40:28:17

through it, but how I choose to 

 

00:40:28:19 - 00:40:29:11

be is the thing. 

 

00:40:29:13 - 00:40:30:15

So I think that's the first one 

 

00:40:30:17 - 00:40:32:07

is practicing human evolution 

 

00:40:32:09 - 00:40:35:14

is is the key, I think. 

 

00:40:37:05 - 00:40:39:18

Sharing more about yourself, 

 

00:40:40:12 - 00:40:41:21

particularly with you people, 

 

00:40:41:23 - 00:40:42:24

is a is a key one. 

 

00:40:42:29 - 00:40:44:10

But also understanding that 

 

00:40:45:05 - 00:40:46:05

this is like getting into a 

 

00:40:46:07 - 00:40:47:12

swimming pool is that we 

 

00:40:47:14 - 00:40:48:18

entered the swimming pool down 

 

00:40:48:20 - 00:40:50:06

the steps as we would enter 

 

00:40:50:08 - 00:40:51:24

into vulnerability that we will 

 

00:40:51:26 - 00:40:53:10

share a little bit at 

 

00:40:53:12 - 00:40:54:06

the shallow end. 

 

00:40:54:27 - 00:40:55:26

We will share a little bit in 

 

00:40:55:28 - 00:40:57:11

the mid end at some point, 

 

00:40:57:13 - 00:40:58:11

and then we might go down 

 

00:40:58:13 - 00:40:59:18

towards the deep end, but we 

 

00:40:59:20 - 00:41:00:27

won't get to the deep 

 

00:41:00:29 - 00:41:01:17

end first. 

 

00:41:02:03 - 00:41:03:06

So just understanding and 

 

00:41:03:08 - 00:41:04:22

regulating that vulnerability, 

 

00:41:04:24 - 00:41:05:21

I think is an important, 

 

00:41:06:04 - 00:41:07:07

important part of it. 

 

00:41:09:17 - 00:41:10:28

And I think the other one is 

 

00:41:11:00 - 00:41:13:18

really embracing what I call 

 

00:41:13:20 - 00:41:16:07

permission to live so and to 

 

00:41:16:09 - 00:41:16:24

live a life 

 

00:41:16:26 - 00:41:18:01

which incorporates work. 

 

00:41:18:03 - 00:41:20:13

So, you know, at dinner, one of 

 

00:41:20:15 - 00:41:21:10

the things I did and I can't 

 

00:41:21:12 - 00:41:22:06

say that everyone could 

 

00:41:22:08 - 00:41:23:24

do this, but I'd actually work 

 

00:41:23:26 - 00:41:25:18

with my last team and we'd 

 

00:41:25:20 - 00:41:27:01

built some non-work-related 

 

00:41:27:03 - 00:41:28:06

goals into their performance 

 

00:41:28:08 - 00:41:30:08

plan because I said that it was 

 

00:41:30:10 - 00:41:31:28

very important for me that you 

 

00:41:32:00 - 00:41:33:18

all got to feel like you had 

 

00:41:33:20 - 00:41:34:25

permission to live a 

 

00:41:35:07 - 00:41:36:05

fulfilled life, 

 

00:41:36:07 - 00:41:37:16

which meant work. 

 

00:41:37:18 - 00:41:40:25

So family, community, and that 

 

00:41:40:27 - 00:41:41:22

made a big difference. 

 

00:41:41:24 - 00:41:44:17

So just embracing that and I 

 

00:41:44:19 - 00:41:45:12

think we've seen it in the last 

 

00:41:45:14 - 00:41:47:27

two years embracing that it's 

 

00:41:47:29 - 00:41:48:22

okay to do that. 

 

00:41:48:24 - 00:41:49:17

And then the other one with 

 

00:41:49:19 - 00:41:51:12

that just quickly is role 

 

00:41:51:14 - 00:41:52:15

modeling that yourself. 

 

00:41:52:29 - 00:41:53:14

Mm. 

 

00:41:53:20 - 00:41:56:11

Like role modeling, life design 

 

00:41:56:13 - 00:41:57:05

or what they call work 

 

00:41:57:07 - 00:41:58:02

life balance yourself. 

 

00:41:58:04 - 00:41:58:25

I think there would be three 

 

00:41:58:27 - 00:42:01:13

things for for managers to 

 

00:42:01:15 - 00:42:02:03

focus in on. 

 

00:42:02:05 - 00:42:03:16

But the experiment one is very 

 

00:42:03:18 - 00:42:04:15

important experimenting 

 

00:42:04:17 - 00:42:05:02

on self. 

 

00:42:05:17 - 00:42:06:02

Yeah. 

 

00:42:06:14 - 00:42:07:16

And that role modeling one I 

 

00:42:07:18 - 00:42:08:19

know is very powerful. 

 

00:42:08:21 - 00:42:10:16

I worked with a leader a number 

 

00:42:10:18 - 00:42:12:08

of years ago and this was an 

 

00:42:12:10 - 00:42:13:10

organization that was a pretty 

 

00:42:13:12 - 00:42:14:28

early adopter of this notion of 

 

00:42:15:15 - 00:42:17:05

work life balance, and they 

 

00:42:17:07 - 00:42:18:00

were really genuinely 

 

00:42:18:02 - 00:42:18:18

committed to it. 

 

00:42:18:20 - 00:42:19:28

They knew that it had all of 

 

00:42:20:00 - 00:42:20:23

these benefits 

 

00:42:20:25 - 00:42:21:20

associated with it. 

 

00:42:21:22 - 00:42:24:02

But this one managing the 

 

00:42:24:04 - 00:42:26:14

country managing director would 

 

00:42:26:16 - 00:42:29:02

work incredible hours, and it 

 

00:42:29:04 - 00:42:30:06

was all the classic signals 

 

00:42:30:08 - 00:42:31:13

around sort of sending emails 

 

00:42:31:15 - 00:42:32:16

late at night, early in 

 

00:42:32:18 - 00:42:33:08

the morning, 

 

00:42:34:24 - 00:42:35:20

you know, people would he'd be 

 

00:42:35:22 - 00:42:37:11

the last to leave, the first to 

 

00:42:37:13 - 00:42:38:06

turn up, all of those 

 

00:42:38:08 - 00:42:38:23

sorts of things. 

 

00:42:38:25 - 00:42:39:24

And I remember a conversation 

 

00:42:39:26 - 00:42:40:25

with him where he was he was 

 

00:42:40:27 - 00:42:42:16

imploring people to actually. 

 

00:42:43:21 - 00:42:44:27

To not do what he does. 

 

00:42:45:25 - 00:42:47:05

And that they had permission. 

 

00:42:48:06 - 00:42:50:03

To not do what he does yet. 

 

00:42:50:11 - 00:42:51:18

The very fact that he did it 

 

00:42:51:20 - 00:42:52:22

said that he valued it, 

 

00:42:53:06 - 00:42:54:09

which meant that it was very 

 

00:42:54:11 - 00:42:55:18

hard for other people to 

 

00:42:55:20 - 00:42:56:05

not do it. 

 

00:42:56:07 - 00:42:57:23

So I think that that that role 

 

00:42:57:25 - 00:42:58:22

modeling is so important. 

 

00:42:59:00 - 00:43:01:14

And you I know you you like to 

 

00:43:01:16 - 00:43:02:25

be authentic and I know I've 

 

00:43:02:27 - 00:43:04:00

seen you before actually 

 

00:43:04:02 - 00:43:05:03

challenge yourself to 

 

00:43:05:05 - 00:43:07:04

be genuinely authentic. 

 

00:43:07:06 - 00:43:08:19

I remember one time, one moment 

 

00:43:08:21 - 00:43:09:18

in the Harvard program, but was 

 

00:43:09:20 - 00:43:12:19

really powerful where you you 

 

00:43:12:21 - 00:43:14:18

had to step into courage 

 

00:43:14:20 - 00:43:15:18

and own something. 

 

00:43:17:07 - 00:43:18:14

And it was a very powerful 

 

00:43:18:16 - 00:43:20:25

public example of leadership 

 

00:43:20:27 - 00:43:22:21

through courage and 

 

00:43:22:23 - 00:43:24:03

openness and acceptance. 

 

00:43:25:21 - 00:43:26:26

But that must be hard, Mark, 

 

00:43:26:28 - 00:43:27:27

to keep doing that work. 

 

00:43:27:29 - 00:43:29:12

Constantly putting yourself 

 

00:43:29:14 - 00:43:30:09

right out on the edge 

 

00:43:30:11 - 00:43:31:08

this way. 

 

00:43:31:13 - 00:43:32:17

Where do you go for 

 

00:43:32:25 - 00:43:33:18

re-energizing? 

 

00:43:33:20 - 00:43:34:20

Who do you look to for 

 

00:43:34:22 - 00:43:35:10

inspiration? 

 

00:43:39:22 - 00:43:40:22

So where do I go? 

 

00:43:40:29 - 00:43:41:23

Where do I go? 

 

00:43:41:25 - 00:43:43:01

For the energy of a very. 

 

00:43:44:10 - 00:43:45:04

A very. 

 

00:43:46:22 - 00:43:47:25

Maybe some people may think 

 

00:43:47:27 - 00:43:49:15

are boring, but I think a very 

 

00:43:49:17 - 00:43:50:14

strong ritual now, 

 

00:43:50:16 - 00:43:52:03

which involves around 2 hours a 

 

00:43:52:05 - 00:43:53:12

day of mark time. 

 

00:43:54:09 - 00:43:57:00

So it's some breathing, some. 

 

00:43:58:06 - 00:43:59:21

Strength based, cardio based 

 

00:43:59:23 - 00:44:00:20

exercise with a 

 

00:44:00:22 - 00:44:01:28

hot cold therapy. 

 

00:44:02:00 - 00:44:03:22

And and then by the end 

 

00:44:03:24 - 00:44:05:09

of that, I'm like, because I 

 

00:44:05:11 - 00:44:06:19

need to fill I need to fill 

 

00:44:06:21 - 00:44:08:09

that cup back up because this 

 

00:44:08:11 - 00:44:09:21

is very, very taxing work. 

 

00:44:10:02 - 00:44:11:11

So I think that's where I 

 

00:44:11:13 - 00:44:12:16

that that's helpful. 

 

00:44:12:20 - 00:44:14:12

I had always been a yo yo 

 

00:44:14:14 - 00:44:16:12

with that, but my I think COVID 

 

00:44:16:14 - 00:44:17:19

has been an upside for me on 

 

00:44:17:21 - 00:44:19:21

that because I've become very 

 

00:44:19:23 - 00:44:20:20

good at that sort of things. 

 

00:44:20:22 - 00:44:23:00

Where do I who are the people 

 

00:44:23:02 - 00:44:23:24

that I look to? 

 

00:44:26:12 - 00:44:27:08

This is an interesting 

 

00:44:27:10 - 00:44:27:29

one because, you know, 

 

00:44:28:01 - 00:44:30:01

I'm obviously the Mardy 

 

00:44:30:03 - 00:44:30:27

Lewinsky's of the world. 

 

00:44:30:29 - 00:44:32:02

I'll always talk about Malia, 

 

00:44:32:04 - 00:44:32:24

love him dearly. 

 

00:44:32:26 - 00:44:34:17

He's had a profound impact on 

 

00:44:34:19 - 00:44:35:26

my life with a few words he 

 

00:44:35:28 - 00:44:36:19

said to me at Harvard 

 

00:44:36:21 - 00:44:38:09

that time, and that was around 

 

00:44:38:11 - 00:44:39:13

the acceptance that I was good 

 

00:44:39:15 - 00:44:41:19

enough to to be in that room 

 

00:44:41:21 - 00:44:42:12

with other people. 

 

00:44:45:11 - 00:44:46:14

Conversations like this are 

 

00:44:46:16 - 00:44:47:22

helpful because, you know, 

 

00:44:47:25 - 00:44:49:15

we don't speak as much as we'd 

 

00:44:49:17 - 00:44:50:18

like to, but, you know, 

 

00:44:50:27 - 00:44:52:06

you sort of come back into a 

 

00:44:52:08 - 00:44:52:28

come back with you. 

 

00:44:53:00 - 00:44:54:13

And it feels like we've we 

 

00:44:54:15 - 00:44:55:00

might have been 

 

00:44:55:02 - 00:44:55:27

talking just yesterday. 

 

00:44:57:08 - 00:44:58:14

I think family is a big one 

 

00:44:58:16 - 00:45:01:08

for me, that my family 

 

00:45:01:10 - 00:45:02:17

are very, very good at letting 

 

00:45:02:19 - 00:45:03:26

me know when they feel like I'm 

 

00:45:03:28 - 00:45:04:25

starting to get a little bit 

 

00:45:05:12 - 00:45:06:09

ahead of myself. 

 

00:45:07:05 - 00:45:08:00

And I can do that at 

 

00:45:08:02 - 00:45:09:04

times because, you know, 

 

00:45:09:06 - 00:45:11:10

when you do this work and you 

 

00:45:11:12 - 00:45:12:12

and you get good results, 

 

00:45:12:14 - 00:45:14:00

you can start to think you're a 

 

00:45:14:02 - 00:45:14:18

little bit better than 

 

00:45:14:20 - 00:45:15:05

what you are. 

 

00:45:15:07 - 00:45:16:25

So I think the people to ground 

 

00:45:16:27 - 00:45:18:22

me and tell me what I need to 

 

00:45:18:24 - 00:45:20:04

hear is really good. 

 

00:45:20:06 - 00:45:20:25

And the other one I'm going to 

 

00:45:20:27 - 00:45:24:04

say is I get it from my clients 

 

00:45:24:27 - 00:45:26:09

and maybe sometimes 

 

00:45:26:11 - 00:45:27:12

people say, Oh, you get a bit 

 

00:45:27:14 - 00:45:28:19

too close to your clients. 

 

00:45:28:21 - 00:45:29:06

But 

 

00:45:30:20 - 00:45:33:13

when I see people transform 

 

00:45:33:22 - 00:45:35:13

over a period of time and it's 

 

00:45:35:15 - 00:45:36:13

usually not a short period 

 

00:45:36:15 - 00:45:38:19

of time, it's like. 

 

00:45:40:13 - 00:45:41:16

That's not work for me. 

 

00:45:41:18 - 00:45:42:03

That is. 

 

00:45:42:16 - 00:45:43:20

That's a purpose to that. 

 

00:45:43:22 - 00:45:46:09

So that makes me feel I make me 

 

00:45:46:11 - 00:45:48:07

feel I'm quite 

 

00:45:48:09 - 00:45:49:02

emotional at times. 

 

00:45:49:04 - 00:45:50:18

And I know that someone says 

 

00:45:50:20 - 00:45:51:16

to me, you know, last pick 

 

00:45:51:18 - 00:45:52:04

someone they like, 

 

00:45:52:06 - 00:45:53:05

you've actually changed 

 

00:45:53:07 - 00:45:53:22

my life. 

 

00:45:53:24 - 00:45:55:03

And I do the old now. 

 

00:45:55:05 - 00:45:55:20

I haven't. 

 

00:45:56:10 - 00:45:57:04

And they're like, No, no, 

 

00:45:57:06 - 00:45:58:00

shut up for a minute. 

 

00:45:58:02 - 00:45:59:00

You've actually changed 

 

00:45:59:02 - 00:45:59:17

my life. 

 

00:45:59:19 - 00:46:00:22

So that's that's the stuff. 

 

00:46:00:25 - 00:46:02:13

Then you go, I want to keep 

 

00:46:02:15 - 00:46:03:10

going back and doing it. 

 

00:46:03:12 - 00:46:04:00

You'd know that what 

 

00:46:04:02 - 00:46:05:13

that's like, it's a really 

 

00:46:05:15 - 00:46:06:16

unique position 

 

00:46:06:18 - 00:46:07:14

and privilege to. 

 

00:46:07:20 - 00:46:08:06

To have. 

 

00:46:09:14 - 00:46:09:29

It is. 

 

00:46:11:00 - 00:46:13:25

And at the same time, we can 

 

00:46:14:08 - 00:46:15:19

when you talked before about 

 

00:46:15:21 - 00:46:18:00

the temptation of starting to, 

 

00:46:18:22 - 00:46:21:05

you know, believe how good 

 

00:46:21:07 - 00:46:22:10

you are, you have to accept the 

 

00:46:22:12 - 00:46:23:14

role that you play and accept 

 

00:46:23:16 - 00:46:24:12

that you're playing a helpful 

 

00:46:24:14 - 00:46:25:09

role and acknowledging and 

 

00:46:25:11 - 00:46:26:09

allow that to fill you up. 

 

00:46:26:11 - 00:46:27:11

But at the same time. 

 

00:46:28:13 - 00:46:30:11

Not let ego take over. 

 

00:46:30:13 - 00:46:32:18

I remember on High Fitz at one 

 

00:46:32:20 - 00:46:34:25

point saying, You need to be 

 

00:46:34:27 - 00:46:35:26

careful at the moment at which 

 

00:46:35:28 - 00:46:37:19

you completely believe 

 

00:46:37:21 - 00:46:38:10

your own bullshit. 

 

00:46:39:04 - 00:46:39:19

Yeah. 

 

00:46:39:27 - 00:46:42:26

And, and so part of the part of 

 

00:46:42:28 - 00:46:43:29

the antidote to that is to 

 

00:46:44:01 - 00:46:44:24

actually say, oh, 

 

00:46:44:26 - 00:46:45:26

I don't know everything. 

 

00:46:46:03 - 00:46:47:00

I don't have all the 

 

00:46:47:02 - 00:46:47:17

answers. 

 

00:46:47:26 - 00:46:48:11

I'm. 

 

00:46:49:07 - 00:46:50:16

I'm still pushing out into 

 

00:46:50:18 - 00:46:52:06

territory which with which I 

 

00:46:52:08 - 00:46:52:29

am incompetent 

 

00:46:54:16 - 00:46:55:09

and graceful. 

 

00:46:55:25 - 00:46:56:24

I'm not effective. 

 

00:46:57:14 - 00:46:58:26

So the question I ask all the 

 

00:46:58:28 - 00:46:59:16

guests who come on 

 

00:46:59:18 - 00:47:00:18

the program, Mark, is, 

 

00:47:01:15 - 00:47:02:00

you know. 

 

00:47:02:22 - 00:47:03:29

What's your learning edge at 

 

00:47:04:01 - 00:47:04:16

the moment? 

 

00:47:04:27 - 00:47:06:09

What are you working on? 

 

00:47:10:14 - 00:47:10:29

Well, there's a 

 

00:47:11:01 - 00:47:11:20

couple of things. 

 

00:47:14:09 - 00:47:15:15

I think one of them and I 

 

00:47:15:17 - 00:47:17:18

really struggle with this is. 

 

00:47:19:00 - 00:47:20:10

Acceptance of an 

 

00:47:20:12 - 00:47:22:02

acknowledgement of my work. 

 

00:47:23:13 - 00:47:24:00

Because, you know, 

 

00:47:24:02 - 00:47:24:19

I said before. 

 

00:47:24:21 - 00:47:25:13

Oh, no, I haven't. 

 

00:47:25:15 - 00:47:26:15

Oh, it's just my job. 

 

00:47:26:17 - 00:47:27:12

Or I might come up with. 

 

00:47:27:20 - 00:47:29:06

Whenever someone praises me, 

 

00:47:29:22 - 00:47:30:27

I'm very quick to 

 

00:47:30:29 - 00:47:31:26

shut that down. 

 

00:47:31:28 - 00:47:33:24

And I think that comes from 

 

00:47:34:20 - 00:47:36:15

maybe not being praised as much 

 

00:47:36:17 - 00:47:38:12

as I might have been earlier in 

 

00:47:38:17 - 00:47:39:15

my in my life. 

 

00:47:39:17 - 00:47:40:13

But I think that's the 

 

00:47:40:15 - 00:47:41:02

best set. 

 

00:47:41:04 - 00:47:42:20

The age for me now is accept 

 

00:47:42:22 - 00:47:44:13

the acceptance of me as me, 

 

00:47:45:03 - 00:47:46:05

and that if someone's 

 

00:47:46:07 - 00:47:47:14

praising me, that I should 

 

00:47:47:16 - 00:47:49:00

accept that and not try and. 

 

00:47:50:03 - 00:47:51:17

You know, water it down 

 

00:47:51:19 - 00:47:52:04

in some way. 

 

00:47:52:06 - 00:47:53:20

So I think that's that's one 

 

00:47:53:22 - 00:47:54:07

maybe there's a bit of 

 

00:47:54:09 - 00:47:55:00

humbleness in that. 

 

00:47:55:02 - 00:47:56:00

And maybe the other side 

 

00:47:56:02 - 00:47:57:05

of that, too, I think charities 

 

00:47:57:07 - 00:47:59:12

that I can go the other way 

 

00:47:59:14 - 00:48:02:04

very quickly to to be a 

 

00:48:02:06 - 00:48:04:14

braggart and, you know, get too 

 

00:48:04:16 - 00:48:05:09

far ahead of myself. 

 

00:48:05:11 - 00:48:06:00

So I think there's 

 

00:48:06:10 - 00:48:07:02

there's that. 

 

00:48:09:10 - 00:48:10:06

I think there's also 

 

00:48:10:08 - 00:48:11:12

a piece around. 

 

00:48:12:11 - 00:48:13:15

I have this thing around 

 

00:48:13:17 - 00:48:14:27

academics in academia. 

 

00:48:16:02 - 00:48:18:26

And that because I like to call 

 

00:48:18:28 - 00:48:20:25

myself the certified Bogan at 

 

00:48:20:27 - 00:48:21:18

the Edge right now. 

 

00:48:21:20 - 00:48:22:22

And I'm actually this is an 

 

00:48:22:24 - 00:48:23:24

experiment I'm running right 

 

00:48:23:26 - 00:48:26:05

now is to spend time with like 

 

00:48:26:07 - 00:48:29:04

true academics who may have a 

 

00:48:29:06 - 00:48:30:08

different view on what 

 

00:48:30:10 - 00:48:32:06

leadership is to me, but to 

 

00:48:32:26 - 00:48:34:16

embrace and accept that view 

 

00:48:34:18 - 00:48:36:22

that it can be out of a book 

 

00:48:37:03 - 00:48:37:20

and not just 

 

00:48:37:22 - 00:48:38:18

from lived experience. 

 

00:48:38:20 - 00:48:40:00

And I've struggled with that 

 

00:48:40:02 - 00:48:41:24

for a very long time, and I've 

 

00:48:41:26 - 00:48:42:27

actually tried to. 

 

00:48:44:02 - 00:48:45:11

I've actually tried to 

 

00:48:45:13 - 00:48:48:00

disassociate myself with those 

 

00:48:48:02 - 00:48:49:02

sorts of things, even though I 

 

00:48:49:04 - 00:48:50:09

was over at Harvard with you. 

 

00:48:50:26 - 00:48:51:15

It's like. 

 

00:48:53:01 - 00:48:54:29

Don't let them see that you 

 

00:48:55:01 - 00:48:56:23

might be half smart. 

 

00:48:56:25 - 00:48:58:29

Mark is one of the things I'm 

 

00:48:59:01 - 00:49:00:03

really at the edge of 

 

00:49:00:05 - 00:49:01:04

trying to accept. 

 

00:49:01:06 - 00:49:02:11

And I'm working with a lovely, 

 

00:49:02:27 - 00:49:04:06

a lovely lady by the name of 

 

00:49:04:08 - 00:49:05:16

Nolan Kerry, who's really 

 

00:49:05:18 - 00:49:06:13

challenging me in this 

 

00:49:06:15 - 00:49:07:07

space right now. 

 

00:49:09:08 - 00:49:10:00

Thank you, Mark, 

 

00:49:10:02 - 00:49:12:14

for sharing that openly. 

 

00:49:12:25 - 00:49:13:18

It's one of the things I love 

 

00:49:13:20 - 00:49:14:21

about when a chat with you is 

 

00:49:14:23 - 00:49:15:28

your your openness and 

 

00:49:16:00 - 00:49:16:18

your candor 

 

00:49:18:14 - 00:49:20:02

and how everything that you 

 

00:49:20:04 - 00:49:21:05

share feels like. 

 

00:49:21:07 - 00:49:23:18

It's it's it's not a it's not 

 

00:49:23:20 - 00:49:24:24

a fabricated thing. 

 

00:49:24:26 - 00:49:25:22

It's actually coming from how 

 

00:49:25:24 - 00:49:28:05

you actually feel in that 

 

00:49:28:07 - 00:49:29:14

moment and the experiences that 

 

00:49:29:16 - 00:49:30:02

you've had or that 

 

00:49:30:04 - 00:49:30:24

you've been having. 

 

00:49:31:21 - 00:49:33:09

How can people stay in touch 

 

00:49:33:11 - 00:49:35:06

with you and your work and your 

 

00:49:35:08 - 00:49:35:23

thinking? 

 

00:49:37:06 - 00:49:38:24

Best place, LinkedIn. 

 

00:49:38:26 - 00:49:40:13

I'm a bit of a LinkedIn fiend, 

 

00:49:40:15 - 00:49:41:06

I think you know that. 

 

00:49:41:08 - 00:49:43:24

So if if they look me up on 

 

00:49:43:26 - 00:49:45:10

LinkedIn just under Mark Lebusque

 

00:49:45:12 - 00:49:47:05

could be us. 

 

00:49:47:07 - 00:49:48:13

Q You're not a hard one 

 

00:49:48:15 - 00:49:49:00

to find. 

 

00:49:49:02 - 00:49:49:23

Not many of us in there. 

 

00:49:51:12 - 00:49:55:12

My website's just www.marklebusque 

 

00:49:55:14 - 00:49:56:18

.com and there's a whole lot 

 

00:49:56:20 - 00:49:57:17

of different things this some 

 

00:49:57:19 - 00:49:59:24

podcasting and some blogging 

 

00:49:59:26 - 00:50:00:29

and some other bits and pieces 

 

00:50:01:01 - 00:50:02:13

in there so that'd be the 

 

00:50:02:25 - 00:50:04:05

that'd be the places to 

 

00:50:04:11 - 00:50:05:06

connect with me. 

 

00:50:06:06 - 00:50:07:08

But yeah, look and please, 

 

00:50:07:10 - 00:50:08:27

I do, I do really mean this. 

 

00:50:09:12 - 00:50:10:13

If anyone does want to have 

 

00:50:10:15 - 00:50:11:12

a chat, just reach out. 

 

00:50:11:14 - 00:50:12:10

There's no obligation. 

 

00:50:12:12 - 00:50:13:08

I'm not going to try and sell 

 

00:50:13:10 - 00:50:14:13

you a set of steak knives in a 

 

00:50:14:15 - 00:50:15:12

two day program. 

 

00:50:15:18 - 00:50:17:15

I actually just like meeting 

 

00:50:17:21 - 00:50:18:17

and learning from 

 

00:50:19:07 - 00:50:20:29

human beings, so please feel 

 

00:50:21:01 - 00:50:21:24

free to reach out. 

 

00:50:23:01 - 00:50:23:16

Good. 

 

00:50:23:18 - 00:50:24:08

I'm sure people will. 

 

00:50:24:18 - 00:50:26:02

But thank you very much. 

 

00:50:26:04 - 00:50:27:23

I've enjoyed the conversation. 

 

00:50:27:25 - 00:50:29:07

It's it's a real delight to 

 

00:50:29:09 - 00:50:30:06

have a conversation with a 

 

00:50:30:08 - 00:50:31:29

friend and to be able to even 

 

00:50:32:01 - 00:50:33:08

use that conversation to learn 

 

00:50:33:10 - 00:50:35:12

even more about more about the 

 

00:50:35:14 - 00:50:37:04

friend so that it actually 

 

00:50:37:06 - 00:50:38:07

facilitates and kind of, 

 

00:50:38:09 - 00:50:39:23

you know, just enables us to 

 

00:50:40:02 - 00:50:41:22

remain connected and connect 

 

00:50:41:24 - 00:50:42:23

even more so. 

 

00:50:43:00 - 00:50:44:07

Thank you very much for joining 

 

00:50:44:09 - 00:50:44:24

us on the 

 

00:50:44:26 - 00:50:45:27

Extraordinary Leaders podcast. 

 

00:50:47:17 - 00:50:48:02

Gerard. 

 

00:50:48:04 - 00:50:48:19

Thanks for having me. 

 

00:50:48:21 - 00:50:49:21

Always great to have a chat, 

 

00:50:49:23 - 00:50:50:08

my friend. 

 

00:50:50:10 - 00:50:50:25

Thank you. 

 

00:50:51:11 - 00:50:51:27

Take care. 

 

00:50:56:07 - 00:50:57:09

I really enjoyed that 

 

00:50:57:11 - 00:50:58:15

conversation with Mark. 

 

00:50:59:09 - 00:51:01:03

It's very easy to immerse 

 

00:51:01:05 - 00:51:02:22

yourself in a topic that you 

 

00:51:02:24 - 00:51:03:29

personally feel passionate 

 

00:51:04:01 - 00:51:05:19

about as well as. 

 

00:51:06:29 - 00:51:08:08

Not only share the passion with 

 

00:51:08:10 - 00:51:10:18

somebody else, but he things 

 

00:51:10:20 - 00:51:12:06

and think about things in a 

 

00:51:12:08 - 00:51:13:16

different way as a consequence 

 

00:51:13:18 - 00:51:14:22

of that conversation. 

 

00:51:16:04 - 00:51:17:22

One of the things I always take 

 

00:51:17:24 - 00:51:19:17

from my conversations with Mark 

 

00:51:19:24 - 00:51:21:28

is a question is a question 

 

00:51:22:00 - 00:51:24:09

about my own consistency and 

 

00:51:24:11 - 00:51:25:19

my own authenticity. 

 

00:51:26:13 - 00:51:27:28

Whilst I can talk about these 

 

00:51:28:00 - 00:51:30:06

things around compassion. 

 

00:51:31:07 - 00:51:32:12

Or being able to see different 

 

00:51:32:14 - 00:51:33:25

truths and perspectives, 

 

00:51:34:03 - 00:51:36:13

curiosity or courage 

 

00:51:36:27 - 00:51:38:11

or empathy, the sorts of things 

 

00:51:38:13 - 00:51:39:28

that play such a central role 

 

00:51:40:00 - 00:51:40:29

in our leadership. 

 

00:51:42:01 - 00:51:43:02

The question I'm often 

 

00:51:43:04 - 00:51:43:26

left with is. 

 

00:51:45:01 - 00:51:46:24

Am I genuinely doing this? 

 

00:51:47:17 - 00:51:49:03

Am I doing it with the deep 

 

00:51:49:05 - 00:51:50:14

commitment that's necessary? 

 

00:51:50:24 - 00:51:52:07

Am I doing it consistently 

 

00:51:52:09 - 00:51:53:12

enough to make a difference? 

 

00:51:55:06 - 00:51:56:16

And the beautiful thing is 

 

00:51:56:18 - 00:51:57:20

about the acceptance of 

 

00:51:57:22 - 00:51:59:21

ourselves as humans and the 

 

00:51:59:23 - 00:52:00:27

humanness that we need to 

 

00:52:00:29 - 00:52:02:29

cultivate around us is that 

 

00:52:03:01 - 00:52:04:15

whilst I can aspire to be 

 

00:52:04:17 - 00:52:05:15

better at these things. 

 

00:52:06:25 - 00:52:08:06

I'm okay if I'm not 

 

00:52:08:08 - 00:52:09:02

doing it perfectly. 

 

00:52:10:08 - 00:52:11:19

That my intention? 

 

00:52:12:22 - 00:52:13:18

My desire. 

 

00:52:14:17 - 00:52:16:22

And my repeated attempts. 

 

00:52:17:22 - 00:52:19:17

There are enough doesn't have 

 

00:52:19:19 - 00:52:21:18

to be perfect and nor do the 

 

00:52:21:20 - 00:52:22:13

people around me. 

 

00:52:23:16 - 00:52:25:02

So with that thought, I'd like 

 

00:52:25:04 - 00:52:27:14

to leave you to ponder your own 

 

00:52:27:20 - 00:52:29:27

perfect imperfection and that 

 

00:52:29:29 - 00:52:31:27

of your team and your peers and 

 

00:52:31:29 - 00:52:32:24

your bosses and 

 

00:52:32:26 - 00:52:33:15

your colleagues. 

 

00:52:34:16 - 00:52:37:08

Those people who come to work 

 

00:52:37:19 - 00:52:38:21

with potentially some of the 

 

00:52:38:23 - 00:52:40:19

same desires and aspirations 

 

00:52:40:21 - 00:52:41:28

and fears and anxieties and 

 

00:52:42:00 - 00:52:43:03

worries that you possess. 

 

00:52:44:22 - 00:52:47:05

Who nonetheless together could 

 

00:52:47:07 - 00:52:47:22

do 

 

00:52:47:24 - 00:52:48:21

something quite extraordinary. 

 

00:52:50:18 - 00:52:51:14

We could all just hang out 

 

00:52:51:16 - 00:52:52:01

with each other. 

 

00:52:53:01 - 00:52:53:25

As human beings. 

 

00:52:55:00 - 00:52:55:25

Thanks for listening to the 

 

00:52:55:27 - 00:52:57:08

Extraordinary Leaders podcast. 

 

00:52:57:25 - 00:52:58:14

Take care. 

 

00:52:58:24 - 00:52:59:11

Lead well.