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Humanising Leadership with Mark LeBusque
Mark LeBusque is on a mission to challenge leaders and organisation to be more human. His people centric approach to leadership and organisation development is both provocative and timely as companies grapple with the competing tensions between people and profit. In this episode Ged talks with his good friend Mark about the mission, why it matters and how leaders can adopt more human-centric practices that can unleash the real potential of their teams and organisations.
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It's not about the ordinary.
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We've got enough of that.
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It's about
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the extraordinary.
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And we need more
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Hi there.
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I'm Gerard PENNA and welcome
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to the Extraordinary
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Leaders podcast, where we spend
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time with recognized leaders
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and global experts exploring
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the art and science
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of remarkable leadership.
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Hello and welcome to the
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Extraordinary Leaders podcast.
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My name is Gerard Penna and I'm
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the host, as well as being the
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founder of
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Extraordinary Leaders,
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a leadership development
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company committed to lifting
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the bar on leadership, as well
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as supporting leaders in all
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walks of life and at all stages
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of their leadership journey.
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This podcast is an extension of
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our purpose to help leaders
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succeed and to help leaders
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step up to something beyond
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the average, ordinary home
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garden variety of leadership
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that many of us have to
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tolerate in our daily lives.
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We do this through our podcast
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by interviewing experts who
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have something unique to
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contribute to our understanding
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of the exercise of leadership,
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as well as conversations with
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extraordinary and remarkable
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leaders in their own right.
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Individuals who are prepared to
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put themselves out there to
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influence and engage and
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mobilize people around purposes
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that matter missions,
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goals, visions, and outcomes
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that make a difference for them
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and for the people that they
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do it with.
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Today's conversation and guest
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is an extension of a very
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important development that's
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occurring in the world of work
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and in the world
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of leadership.
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The humanizing of workplaces.
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Unfortunately, the practices of
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many of our organizations and
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workplaces and
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even leadership.
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Are the legacy of the
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Industrial Revolution, in which
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we found new ways of being able
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to organize resources and
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organize processes and organize
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people to produce more
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things faster,
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more efficiently.
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That industrialization process
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was focused on the design of
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things and the organization of
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things for that
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efficiency and productivity.
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The assumption was that if we
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were to design
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these organizations,
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design these processes
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perfectly from an
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engineering sense, we should
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then be able to administer them
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and execute them and operate
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them in that perfect way.
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And their job would be,
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therefore, to identify those
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ways in which the processes
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were not following the intended
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design in some way,
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deviating from
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what was intended.
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And our job is to jump on it,
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to identify the gap,
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identify the error,
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and then fix it.
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And that thinking has permeated
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the way that we think about
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people as well, that they
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should be able to execute
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things perfectly, that they
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should be able to fit together
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in this seamless series of
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cogs or interactions.
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But we all know from the lived
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experience that this is not the
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way it is.
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This is not what it means to be
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human in the workplace.
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To have a workplace that is
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truly human, that honors the
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role that people play
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within it.
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And respects their needs
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motivations as human beings.
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One of my favorite quotes
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comes to mind.
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It was by Rear Admiral
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Grace Murray Hopper.
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She was the first female to
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achieve flag status in the
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United States Navy.
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She was also known for being
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one of two people who developed
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the computer programming
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language that was used all
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around the world called COBOL.
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And she's also responsible for
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coining the phrase There's a
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bug in the system which we use
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when our computers and other
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devices stop working properly.
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Apparently, in the days when
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they used to have these large
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reel to reel computers with
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magnetic tape and these large
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cabinets in which
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they were housed.
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Grace Murray Hopper one day
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came in to work and she found
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that that
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computer wasn't working.
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So they she opened up the
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cabinet doors and a whole lot
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of moths flew out.
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There'd been an infestation
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which had stopped the the
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computer working properly.
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And she's responsible for
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coining that phrase.
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There's a bug in the system.
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The phrase that she used that I
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use most regularly is we manage
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things and we lead people.
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And given that leadership is
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about people
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about influencing,
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engaging and
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mobilizing people.
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It's quite difficult to have a
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conversation about leadership
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and what leadership needs to
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look like and what leaders need
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to do to be able to lift their
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effectiveness without talking
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about people, without talking
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about the human aspect.
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And so my guest in today's
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podcast episode and the topic
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that we're talking about is
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all about that.
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It's about being human and
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humanizing workplaces,
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being human as a leader.
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So showing up.
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Really genuinely,
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authentically as a human being
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and what that means.
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As well as humanizing
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workplaces that allows human
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beings to be.
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To thrive.
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And to grow.
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I first met Mark close to ten
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years ago when we both attended
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a program at
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Harvard Kennedy School.
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At that stage, Mark had been a
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senior leader within one of my
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former client organizations,
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Australia Post, and he'd done
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an amazing job running an
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experiment or at humanising the
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workplace for his team,
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and he'd been able to produce
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some astounding results.
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Mark had become very motivated
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to share this more broadly and
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wanted to step more effectively
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into a leadership role,
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whether it was in
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the organisation, outside the
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organisation in which he
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could change, change the
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narrative around leadership and
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culture to accommodate and
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acknowledge the human aspect.
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It seemed to me to be a pivotal
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moment for Mark and when he
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returned from Harvard.
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He was on a mission and he,
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over the last nine years has
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become a a strong voice
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around humanizing workplaces.
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He does this through
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his consulting, coaching,
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advising of organizations,
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including the AFL, through the
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books that he's written and
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published on the topic.
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Through his own simply
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practically human podcast.
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And through his recent founding
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of the Human Manager Academy.
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My observation is that
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everything that Mark has done
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over the last decade has been
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entirely consistent with my
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first experiences of him as
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someone who is
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vulnerable, courageous.
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Authentic.
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Outspoken, provocative.
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And focused on creating a much
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more human world in which we
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can live and thrive.
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So I hope you
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enjoyed this episode.
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Going to be a good one.
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Well, my good friend
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Mark LeBusque.
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It is an absolute privilege and
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joy to have you on the
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Extraordinary Leaders
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podcast.
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Welcome.
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Thanks for having me on, mate.
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I am returning the favor from
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when you came on mine.
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It was a magnificent episode.
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Thank you.
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My pleasure.
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I've I've you know, prior to us
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having this conversation,
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I've let the listener know a
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bit about you, what your
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background and a bit about what
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you do, but not really who
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you are, and particularly not
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how you see yourself.
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So that's my first question
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for you, mate.
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If it's okay, straight to it.
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Who is Mark LeBusque?
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What a good question.
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I'd like to Mark LeBusque is
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I'm going to say I want to
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start with two words helpful
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human is really the way that
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I describe myself.
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He is also a combination of
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some pretty simple stuff,
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but also some very complex is a
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complex piece to him as well.
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I'd say that I'm a
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like I like to I like to
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affectionately call myself the
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certified bogan from
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my upbringing, which was in
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Mildura up on the Murray River
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and you know tipped hair and
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permed hair at 15, some of
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those sorts of things.
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But at the same time
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there's a.
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Is a depth to me that
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sometimes I think.
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Gerard I like to play
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down a bit.
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There's a depth of knowledge
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and understanding and of,
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of all these things,
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human leadership.
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And I reckon I've just been
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doing some work around this
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just recently about why it is
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that I try and step
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away from that.
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But so simple,
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complicated, helpful.
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And I'd like to think,
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as people have said to me,
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a big bloke with a warm heart.
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Yeah I that resonates for me
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definitely and the certified
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bogan because I think you and I
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when we first met each other
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and it was possibly on one of
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our walks at Harvard between
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the residencies and the lecture
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theatres that we talked about,
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a whole bunch of stuff.
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And one of the things that we
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talked about was our,
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you know, what seem to be
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some similarities, you know,
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not just sort of
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biological similarities,
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but same age,
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roughly same age.
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Both played the guitar and both
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were bogans in
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our teenage years.
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So I had the I had the
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marijuana earring with the
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clash cut off sleeve t shirt
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and the I my hair was actually
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not tipped it was grape purple
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because I'd used a home
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dye on it.
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Magnificent.
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Wow And it was funny,
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those walks too, because look,
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I'd first met you when I was at
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Australia Post and you were
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coming in and
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doing some facilitation.
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And I know I've said this to
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you before, but I used to sit
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there and go, I want to
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be him, I want to be the guy at
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the front of the room.
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And then I was lucky to be
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introduced to you by, I think,
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Dennis Attackador.
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And then we caught up a few
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times and I was always
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absolutely in awe and I think I
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used to say that a bit.
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I'd be like, This guy is like,
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he's uber smart, he's clever,
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he he uses really cool words,
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but he, but there's a real
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depth about him.
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And I was like, fanboy knew for
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a long time and then I got to
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go to Harvard with you and we
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had some great conversations
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and I think what came out of
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that for me was.
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Oh, look, I think I can now I
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can actually stand
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in his company.
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I don't need to feel like I've
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got to sit beneath him.
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And that was a really good
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moment for me because I
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appreciated your wise counsel
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early on, but then also your
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friendship from there.
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Yeah, likewise.
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Isn't it funny how we.
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Until when?
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We don't really know someone
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how we can hold them in a way.
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Which is.
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I said what?
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I said, not helpful.
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It's.
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It's not complete and it,
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and it does something
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for us sometimes.
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Which.
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Doesn't allow ourselves to
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actually be the way we need to
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be or acknowledge ourselves the
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way we need
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to acknowledge ourselves.
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But once we get to really know
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that person, once we understand
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the human that sits behind
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the professional, the human
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that sits behind the
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professional act that,
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you know, people might observe
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of me when I'm
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doing my facilitation.
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It's incredible what it does to
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the relationship and it
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does for ourselves.
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And that's that's that kind of
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whole thing about human is
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really that space that you
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spent so much of your time in,
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apart from the fact that,
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you know, biologically as a
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you act, you are part of the
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human species, but you've
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actually written two books.
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The first one was Being Human
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Why Robots Are Not the Answer
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to Business Success and the
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Little Book of Human,
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which wasn't that long ago that
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I was really fortunate to come
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along to the launch of the
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Little Book of Human Tales
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Tools and Told You so's.
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What inspired you to write them
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and what's the connection of
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those to this idea about being
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human?
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I guess the inspiration was
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2020 odd years in corporate and
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look really fortunate to to
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spend that time there.
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Sometimes I can be a little
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critical of corporate, but I
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think it was a great learning
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laboratory for me.
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And I guess what inspired it
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was a I call it a
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two year experiment.
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And I can also say that I
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wasn't always the most human of
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managers very much.
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Early days, young egomaniac
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wanted to get to the top,
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wanted to get a title.
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So it was all about humans as
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units of labor and outputs.
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And I did that for a
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very long time.
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And I guess as you get a
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bit older, in my last role,
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I started to feel like I was an
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outsider in the system, and I
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think I started to flex a bit
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of the maverick in me to go,
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let's just try
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some different things.
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So the experiment was this.
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The question was what would
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happen if I treated my people
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like human beings?
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I sit down with an A3 sheet of
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paper and I wrote the word
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trust in the middle
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of that sheet.
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And then I wrote around that.
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What would be some things that
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I would do if I truly treated
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the people like humans?
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So I then ran an experiment,
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the experiment on that, and I
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went pretty gung ho at
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the experiment, and ultimately
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it resulted in some really
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solid financial results
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in the business.
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So that really inspired me
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to say, I'd like to do this
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with more than 40 people and
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and that then became more
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people within that organization
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and then ultimately the
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opportunity to take it
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outside of there.
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Because what I really what I
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really uncovered was that
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there's a uniqueness to
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each human being.
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And I think potentially the way
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we treat them in organizations
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can be a bit robotic.
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And I just wanted to see what
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would happen out the
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other side.
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And look, fortunately,
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maybe luckily or maybe not
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luckily shared that the results
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were significantly higher than
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ever and it gave me some
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liberty to keep applying that
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and then ultimately taking it
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out into the world to say
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to people that.
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That you can do this as well if
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you're prepared to walk away
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from some of the old system
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and and embrace.
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And I'm going to say this
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starting with yourself,
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embrace a more human approach,
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which includes things like
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deeper connections,
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stronger sense of belonging.
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Creating a safety net.
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All of those things that we
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talk a lot about, but we may
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not have quite been able to get
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there for one reason
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or another.
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You mentioned the sort of the
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journey as sort of the start in
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that narrative was, you know,
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being at work and having this
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piece of paper and writing the
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word trust in the center.
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What, though, was the personal
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experience that kind of
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catalyzed your desire?
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What was the self-realisation
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or the question that was
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sitting with you?
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Well, the thing that was
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niggling you that led you to
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want to make that choice.
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What a great question.
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So.
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I just it was interesting that
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I kept saying myself
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to myself, this is going to
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sound really benign,
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but there's got to be
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a better way.
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Because we talk about it
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a lot.
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We talk about the people and
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the people are our priority and
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we should put the
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people first.
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And all of those words continue
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to echo within my head,
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and then I'll be like,
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What does that mean?
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And then and I'm going to say
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this is with a little bit of
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maverick in me, comes out
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and goes, Why don't you why
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don't you be the first one to
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truly try this and see
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what what happens.
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So it was, it was about being
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doing the right thing.
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But what I really do know is
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that and I think we've spoken
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about this before, when I did
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get a chance to sit down and
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think more deeply about it,
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I'm going to say more after the
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event than before because I am
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pretty simple, like it
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just seems right.
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But you know, the passing of my
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father through him, taking his
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own life, when I got to sit
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down and and think about it,
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when I was out doing my own
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thing and not having a lot of
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work early days was I really
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started to dig into that.
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And he'd left a note which
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talked about belonging and that
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he was unsuccessful in his
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first attempt to take
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his life.
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And he left a note that said On
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the bird and I'm and
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I don't belong.
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And my catch cry today is and I
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know people are bit critical of
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one of the words which is
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making but making
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every human belong.
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That's something that's very,
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very dear to me.
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And I think it was really I
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don't know that I had the
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maturity when I first did the
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experiment to have dug that
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deeply into why I was
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doing it.
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But when I had the time to
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do that, to me, it's that's the
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driver for me is that
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human beings crave.
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Social belonging.
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They crave connection.
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And and I just think we've got
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such a great opportunity as
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leaders and managers to to
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create that space where people
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have a really strong sense of
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where I fit into my team,
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my department,
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my organization, my community,
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my family, all of those
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sorts of things.
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So I think that's been that's
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very clear to me now.
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But back then it was
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more like, I just
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think it's right.
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And that was.
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It was quite an experiment for
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you to do.
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Start doing this work and
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thinking about doing this work
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in the organization that you
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worked in at the time because
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it was an organization that
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whilst it was.
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People were nice to
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each other.
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There was this element of it.
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It was all built around linear
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processes that were all about
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the movement of units of things
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from here to there at the
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lowest possible cost.
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A lot of engineers had built
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and designed the process,
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and then a lot of technocrats
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were running it.
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So to even attempt to do
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something like that in that
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organization was quite both,
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you know, courageous and
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powerful as an experiment.
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You've then gone outside the
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organisation and for now a
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number of years you've
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been out there.
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Encouraging people to be
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more human, to help make people
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provide the opportunity for
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people to be more human.
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What?
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What have you then observed and
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experienced in those workplaces
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that were beyond where you
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first started doing this?
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Has it led you to the
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conclusion that workplaces are
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more human than you thought
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they were?
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Or, as a general rule, do they
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need a lot more humanizing than
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you originally thought?
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The really easy answer is all
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of the above.
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What have I observed?
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I have observed a real appetite
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for this work.
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In the majority of cases,
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because, look, you know,
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we're tapping into what it is
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to be human.
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And that's the essence
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of life, really.
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It's the connection,
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it's the belonging.
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So there's a real there's an
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appetite for it.
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There's some trepidation
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as well, because a lot of my
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work is, you know, is very much
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based on the work of self.
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So so it's like we're very
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excited because usually,
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you know, we'll do some things
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around how to motivate our
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teams and how to have difficult
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conversations and these
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sorts of things.
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But it's like now 75% of the
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time is you looking at yourself
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as the experiment here.
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And so any time we start to
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create that level of
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disequilibrium for
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human beings, then it's like,
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You want me to do what?
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And I'm like, Yeah, we're going
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to you're going to work
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on yourself first.
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So but look, all in all,
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I'm going to say, I reckon I
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was too critical of
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organisations when I was when I
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was in them.
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But having been outside them
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and looking back in, I think
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there's a great will for this
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work and particularly I'm going
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to say after the last
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two years.
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I think the the will is
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significantly higher now
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because like we haven't seen
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the separation of work
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and life.
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We've seen work as part
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of life.
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And and there's a real there's
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a real want to do it now.
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There's still a it's the
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challenge around a lot of what
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you said before, mate,
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around the units of labour and
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the technical type things that
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and particularly time like this
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work takes time.
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So you've got to be prepared to
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have a bit of a lag time
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because it won't get
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better straight away.
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So I still see that
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resistance of, well, hang on,
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our results haven't got better
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and it's two weeks after we've
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done the work.
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So there's a bit
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of resistance, there's a bit
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of excitement, there's a
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bit of trepidation.
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It's all thrown in.
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Yeah.
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What's your hope?
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That
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of what?
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Your hope of what will be
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created?
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Because obviously, our hopes
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and our dreams and our
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aspirations and our visions for
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ourselves and the world around
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us is what compels us forward.
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So what is your hope of what
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would be created if we could
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cultivate a more human approach
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to leadership and management?
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Oh, my.
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My first hope is that.
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That we look at.
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The importance of, I guess,
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the success factors,
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the importance of the success
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factors in a different way.
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So I look at it this way now
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and I say.
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Self-aware, happy,
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engaged human beings create
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great organizational
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and customer outcomes.
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And that is the shifted
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away from, you know, the what's
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the stakeholder value,
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what's the shareholder value,
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what is the, the customer
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experience and sort of making
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it more centric around the
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human beings that are
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in your organization.
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So my hope is that we truly
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start to live this idea that
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our people are the most
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important asset in
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our business.
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That's the big hope.
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The other hope is that.
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Is that we we can truly see a
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shift in in awareness and
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in self-awareness, because I
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think we're I think we're very
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quick to to look outwards.
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I talk very much these days
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about the mythical creatures of
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them invading organizations,
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the people it's easy to point
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the finger at.
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So my other hope is that,
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you know, to coin
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the Alinsky phrase.
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What's your part in the myth is
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that people start there.
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And I mean that that
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with everybody, it's not just
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about the managers and
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the leaders, is that we create
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organizations full of people
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who look back towards
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themselves first before they
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look outwards for to blame and
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create a blame culture.
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And.
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And we end up with.
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With organizations that are
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full of
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different perspectives,
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different backgrounds,
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different upbringings,
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different environments,
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but an ability to accept
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different perspectives from the
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human beings that are in there
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rather than, you know,
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the rightness that we see
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play out today.
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That idea of being able to
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acknowledge and accept.
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Differences in the different
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ways that they see the world,
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different ways they
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approach things,
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different belief systems.
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They carry different,
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different versions of
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the truth.
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It seems to me that that's
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such a critical.
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Ingredient for the kind of
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leadership that we need because
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we know that.
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We know that leadership in all
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the research tells us whether
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it's the work of Kagen or
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whether it's the work that
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comes from Bob Adams.
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It says that the leaders that
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get stuck in only being able to
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see one way of seeing
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the world, one truth, and it's
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usually a truth that's given to
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them by the system that.
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That they.
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Are probably capable of
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maintaining the system
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that they're in.
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You know, custodians of the
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system maintain the system,
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maintaining the status quo,
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but they typically are
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incapable of transforming the
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system and that the sort of
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leadership that can transform
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the system is leadership that
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can see more than
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one perspective, more than one
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belief system, more than
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one truth, in fact,
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multiple truths.
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And that's the kind of
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leadership we need so much more
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of today, because we need to
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transform the organizations
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and the systems.
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Which rules these organizations
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and rules some of our
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communities and rule the way
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in which, you know,
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the world works.
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If we're going to solve for or
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make progress with some of the
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challenges that we have.
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So the interesting thing
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for me, Gerrit, is that I.
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I talk to people about the
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curse of rightness and there is
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a there is a need for.
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I think most of us, if not all
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of us and I think this need
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came from an earlier age,
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perhaps in the schoolyard,
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is that we need to be seen
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to be right.
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And and I think this is one of
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the great inhibitors of
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true transformation, is that
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when we turn up being right,
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that means somebody else has
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to be wrong.
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And and if we continue to to
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live in that world filled with
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that curiosity, then we will
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continue to get what we get,
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which is, I'm going to say
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short term
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transactional change.
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And some of that
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change is useful.
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But it's not sustainable
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because it then means we have
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to do another one.
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It's a bit like when
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organisations go away every
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year to do their five year plan
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and just think about that for a
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minute and it's like they'll
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get in there and there'll be
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rightness and wrongness and
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nice things and you sort
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of think, I wonder what would
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happen if we listened to all
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the voices in the room and we
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realised that by taking a bit
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more time to do that, we can
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truly embrace transformational
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change and not just stop,
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start transactional change.
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So I think there's a bit of
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there's a bit of work to
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be done, but the first
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thing is, is to be able to go,
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what if I'm not right?
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Because of course being right
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in a inflated sense, in a
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magnified sense,
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can lead to righteousness.
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And of course,
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righteousness often leads
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to ignorance, hatred.
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And.
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And that's obviously a
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cause of suffering.
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It's it's one of the you know,
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those those aspects of being
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human are the undesirable
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aspects of being human.
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Does your work acknowledge or
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directly address those other
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aspects of being human that are
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destructive and cause cause
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suffering?
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Yes.
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It does not tell you how.
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It does it very much.
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I used myself as the case study
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because I think it's
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really important that.
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I've lived two lives in
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the workplace, one being what I
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call bad mark and one being
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what I call good Mark.
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And so showing how even when
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you think you're turning out
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with good intention to do
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good work,
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you're
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actually being destructive.
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And I think it's really
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important that we see the whole
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human because my kids will
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often say to me,
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they're adults now, but they'll
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say something and they'll say
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to me, Hashtag human manager,
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you know?
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And it's like just to remind me
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that I can still be.
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It time's not how I'm.
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Telling other people or saying
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to other people that
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they should be.
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So I think it's important to
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acknowledge it because this
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isn't about perfection.
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And I think a lot of us
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are after perfection.
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So
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we need to appreciate that.
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It's part of the maturation
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that I'll call it for myself.
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I actually think it was really
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good year to go through the bad
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mock phase and to be able to
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talk about that and not be
00:27:33:11 - 00:27:34:14
proud of it, but be able to
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talk and help others to learn
00:27:36:06 - 00:27:38:09
from it that we are that we are
00:27:38:11 - 00:27:39:20
a fully if we are a fully
00:27:39:22 - 00:27:40:25
rounded human being, we would
00:27:40:27 - 00:27:42:10
have all dipped our toe into
00:27:42:12 - 00:27:44:15
that that sort of darker space
00:27:44:17 - 00:27:45:17
that you mentioned earlier.
00:27:47:24 - 00:27:48:29
And if we are unable to.
00:27:50:02 - 00:27:51:15
Unable to acknowledge that dark
00:27:51:17 - 00:27:52:26
space within us and the dark
00:27:52:28 - 00:27:53:13
space that we can
00:27:53:15 - 00:27:54:19
potentially occupy, then we
00:27:54:21 - 00:27:56:02
can't really understand what it
00:27:56:04 - 00:27:56:27
means to be human.
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Well, we can understand if we
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can understand
00:28:01:10 - 00:28:02:00
that for ourselves.
00:28:02:02 - 00:28:03:09
This is, I think, a really
00:28:03:11 - 00:28:04:14
important point is that.
00:28:05:22 - 00:28:07:06
I really, truly believe in
00:28:07:08 - 00:28:08:24
order to lead others, we must
00:28:08:26 - 00:28:11:11
first of all lead self to.
00:28:11:13 - 00:28:12:13
In order to know others,
00:28:12:15 - 00:28:13:17
we must know self.
00:28:13:19 - 00:28:14:21
And again, this is
00:28:14:23 - 00:28:15:21
the hardest work.
00:28:15:23 - 00:28:16:08
So
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I'd suggest that people that,
00:28:19:14 - 00:28:20:19
you know, doing it and I think
00:28:20:21 - 00:28:21:16
there are some really good ones
00:28:21:18 - 00:28:22:08
out there but doing a
00:28:22:10 - 00:28:23:16
psychometric profile and
00:28:23:18 - 00:28:25:11
then saying, Well, this is me,
00:28:25:19 - 00:28:26:22
we need to do more
00:28:26:24 - 00:28:27:14
work than that.
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And I think this is where this
00:28:30:00 - 00:28:31:09
this is where organisations
00:28:31:11 - 00:28:32:20
don't transform is because they
00:28:32:22 - 00:28:34:02
don't spend enough time on the
00:28:34:04 - 00:28:34:27
work of self.
00:28:35:29 - 00:28:37:26
They try and take a box on that
00:28:37:28 - 00:28:39:00
and then move into the other
00:28:39:02 - 00:28:42:05
work that we're, we're more
00:28:42:07 - 00:28:43:20
comfortable with but we are
00:28:43:22 - 00:28:46:03
more capable of doing because
00:28:46:05 - 00:28:47:01
we've learnt that all
00:28:47:03 - 00:28:47:18
the way through.
00:28:47:20 - 00:28:50:02
So, you know, spending time on
00:28:50:11 - 00:28:52:20
looking at the whole human and
00:28:52:22 - 00:28:53:25
the good and bad that comes
00:28:53:27 - 00:28:55:10
with that and particularly in
00:28:55:12 - 00:28:57:26
yourself I think is, is both
00:28:57:28 - 00:28:59:06
terrifying and liberating at
00:28:59:08 - 00:28:59:25
the same time.
00:29:00:06 - 00:29:02:00
Yeah, it reminds me of the,
00:29:02:24 - 00:29:05:02
the interview that a
00:29:05:07 - 00:29:06:20
journalist had with.
00:29:08:04 - 00:29:10:10
Gandhi in the period,
00:29:10:14 - 00:29:11:10
the period in which he was
00:29:11:12 - 00:29:12:17
seeking to lead the people of
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India out from colonial rule
00:29:14:09 - 00:29:15:07
and into democracy and
00:29:15:19 - 00:29:16:26
freedom and independence.
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And it was right in the middle
00:29:19:02 - 00:29:19:18
of the struggle.
00:29:19:20 - 00:29:20:16
And this journalist set with
00:29:20:18 - 00:29:22:28
him in his home village,
00:29:23:00 - 00:29:24:07
and they were just sitting
00:29:24:09 - 00:29:24:28
on the ground.
00:29:25:23 - 00:29:27:24
And Gandhi was dressed in just
00:29:27:26 - 00:29:30:01
very simple cloth.
00:29:30:12 - 00:29:31:15
And the journalist said
00:29:31:17 - 00:29:32:09
to him, asked him
00:29:32:11 - 00:29:34:13
the question, What's your
00:29:34:15 - 00:29:35:26
greatest challenge?
00:29:37:01 - 00:29:38:15
And if you were a betting man,
00:29:39:02 - 00:29:40:07
you would assume that he's
00:29:40:09 - 00:29:41:03
going to respond with.
00:29:41:05 - 00:29:42:05
Well, my greatest challenge is
00:29:42:07 - 00:29:43:09
to continue to play a role in
00:29:43:11 - 00:29:44:13
leading the people of India out
00:29:44:15 - 00:29:45:08
from colonial rule,
00:29:45:10 - 00:29:45:25
etc.
00:29:45:27 - 00:29:46:12
, etc.
00:29:46:14 - 00:29:46:29
.
00:29:47:01 - 00:29:47:16
But he didn't.
00:29:47:18 - 00:29:49:04
He responded with the words,
00:29:49:28 - 00:29:51:08
My greatest battle
00:29:51:16 - 00:29:52:27
lies within myself.
00:29:54:13 - 00:29:54:28
Yep.
00:29:55:15 - 00:29:57:06
So when it comes to, you know,
00:29:57:08 - 00:29:59:11
obviously self-awareness and
00:29:59:13 - 00:30:03:07
self-acceptance are part of the
00:30:03:09 - 00:30:04:21
conditions that we need to
00:30:04:23 - 00:30:07:12
cultivate more humanness
00:30:07:14 - 00:30:08:09
in our leadership.
00:30:08:27 - 00:30:10:14
What are the if we do want to
00:30:10:16 - 00:30:11:19
be more human at work?
00:30:11:21 - 00:30:13:00
What other ingredients or
00:30:13:02 - 00:30:14:09
conditions do you feel are the
00:30:14:11 - 00:30:15:18
most critical that we need to
00:30:15:20 - 00:30:16:05
cultivate?
00:30:19:21 - 00:30:22:07
I think the acceptance that we
00:30:22:09 - 00:30:26:02
are we are flawed is a is a
00:30:26:04 - 00:30:27:21
real starting point because,
00:30:27:23 - 00:30:29:12
you know, again, if I look at
00:30:29:21 - 00:30:30:25
having been a schoolteacher
00:30:30:27 - 00:30:31:12
looking at the
00:30:31:14 - 00:30:32:12
education system,
00:30:32:14 - 00:30:33:06
it's all about.
00:30:35:00 - 00:30:36:09
Weaknesses and fixing
00:30:36:11 - 00:30:37:18
weaknesses and all those
00:30:37:20 - 00:30:38:10
sorts of things.
00:30:38:12 - 00:30:40:25
And then we sort of get to a
00:30:40:27 - 00:30:41:21
point where we don't want to
00:30:41:23 - 00:30:42:23
show any of those things.
00:30:42:25 - 00:30:44:00
So I think the acceptance of
00:30:44:02 - 00:30:45:25
self-acceptance that I turn up
00:30:46:23 - 00:30:48:06
as a flawed human being,
00:30:48:17 - 00:30:50:01
regardless of my position of
00:30:50:03 - 00:30:52:23
power in the hierarchy, I think
00:30:52:25 - 00:30:54:25
that's a really that's that to
00:30:54:27 - 00:30:55:24
me is like the.
00:30:56:25 - 00:30:58:06
That's that's the invitation
00:30:58:08 - 00:30:58:23
into the game.
00:30:59:07 - 00:31:00:24
We've got to be able to do that
00:31:00:26 - 00:31:02:10
because particularly if we are
00:31:02:12 - 00:31:03:18
in a position in some position
00:31:03:20 - 00:31:06:03
of power, is that others will.
00:31:07:22 - 00:31:08:27
We'll take some inspiration
00:31:08:29 - 00:31:10:21
from that and I can
00:31:10:23 - 00:31:12:14
follow then, whereas if we're a
00:31:12:16 - 00:31:13:22
bit closed off from those sorts
00:31:13:24 - 00:31:14:19
of things, so we can't
00:31:14:21 - 00:31:15:14
be closed off.
00:31:15:16 - 00:31:16:10
We can't be.
00:31:17:11 - 00:31:18:11
We can't not
00:31:18:13 - 00:31:19:18
show vulnerability, you know?
00:31:19:23 - 00:31:20:24
You know, vulnerability has
00:31:20:26 - 00:31:21:27
been seen as traditionally
00:31:21:29 - 00:31:22:14
as a weakness.
00:31:22:16 - 00:31:23:19
So I think the other condition
00:31:23:21 - 00:31:24:26
is that we we can
00:31:24:28 - 00:31:25:21
be vulnerable.
00:31:26:09 - 00:31:27:12
I think there's another piece
00:31:27:14 - 00:31:28:18
here around boundaries that
00:31:28:20 - 00:31:31:03
we've also got to be aware that
00:31:31:19 - 00:31:32:24
not everybody's at the same
00:31:32:26 - 00:31:35:05
place on, let's call it
00:31:35:07 - 00:31:36:14
their humanness, even though we
00:31:36:16 - 00:31:38:23
may have all of the similar
00:31:38:25 - 00:31:40:12
components that make us human,
00:31:40:14 - 00:31:42:00
as in physiological components
00:31:42:02 - 00:31:43:00
that we're all in a different
00:31:43:22 - 00:31:46:00
page from, from an experience
00:31:46:02 - 00:31:47:19
maturity level, and that we
00:31:47:27 - 00:31:51:25
that we accept that not
00:31:51:27 - 00:31:52:24
everybody is exactly
00:31:52:26 - 00:31:53:12
where we are.
00:31:53:16 - 00:31:54:01
I think that's
00:31:54:03 - 00:31:54:22
really important.
00:31:56:09 - 00:31:57:11
What else would it be?
00:31:57:13 - 00:31:58:02
I think.
00:32:00:10 - 00:32:01:07
I think the other one for
00:32:01:09 - 00:32:02:06
me is.
00:32:04:10 - 00:32:07:09
The ability to be resilient.
00:32:07:11 - 00:32:08:22
And I like to use these three
00:32:08:24 - 00:32:10:15
words Hold your nerve,
00:32:10:19 - 00:32:12:07
because this work is
00:32:12:09 - 00:32:12:29
a long game.
00:32:13:19 - 00:32:14:25
And I think one of the reasons
00:32:14:27 - 00:32:16:04
that we aren't making the
00:32:16:06 - 00:32:17:21
progress that we're capable of
00:32:17:23 - 00:32:19:09
making is that we get caught in
00:32:19:11 - 00:32:20:15
the short termism of
00:32:21:06 - 00:32:22:09
next week's results.
00:32:22:11 - 00:32:23:16
The Quarterly Business Review,
00:32:23:20 - 00:32:24:27
all things that are important
00:32:25:22 - 00:32:27:20
as I guess, measures of health
00:32:27:22 - 00:32:28:18
of the organization.
00:32:28:20 - 00:32:30:19
But there will be times when
00:32:30:21 - 00:32:32:04
things when you're being human
00:32:32:06 - 00:32:33:11
actually aren't you're not
00:32:33:13 - 00:32:35:22
seeing the change as
00:32:35:24 - 00:32:36:23
immediately as you'd like.
00:32:36:25 - 00:32:37:18
But you've got to sit there
00:32:37:20 - 00:32:39:09
and go, hold your nerve.
00:32:40:22 - 00:32:41:09
And I think that's
00:32:41:11 - 00:32:42:03
important as well.
00:32:45:11 - 00:32:48:23
Today I was talking to someone
00:32:48:25 - 00:32:49:28
who was providing me with a
00:32:50:00 - 00:32:51:21
briefing on an
00:32:51:23 - 00:32:53:13
executive leadership team.
00:32:54:22 - 00:32:58:10
Who need to do some work on the
00:32:58:12 - 00:32:59:04
leadership and
00:32:59:06 - 00:33:00:06
the collective leadership.
00:33:01:06 - 00:33:02:23
What was described to me was
00:33:02:27 - 00:33:04:21
this team during COVID.
00:33:05:29 - 00:33:07:23
Recognize the challenges that
00:33:07:25 - 00:33:08:28
was presented to everyone who
00:33:09:00 - 00:33:10:08
worked in their organization.
00:33:11:15 - 00:33:12:00
As well as their
00:33:12:02 - 00:33:12:29
customers and.
00:33:13:28 - 00:33:15:07
And adopted a much
00:33:15:09 - 00:33:17:05
more caring, connected.
00:33:19:13 - 00:33:20:08
Empathetic,
00:33:20:15 - 00:33:22:15
compassionate, flexible.
00:33:23:03 - 00:33:24:00
Open minded.
00:33:25:17 - 00:33:28:18
Uh, approach and kind of less.
00:33:28:28 - 00:33:29:26
More patience,
00:33:29:28 - 00:33:30:27
less impatience.
00:33:32:05 - 00:33:32:21
And.
00:33:34:04 - 00:33:35:12
What this person was sharing
00:33:35:14 - 00:33:36:28
with me is that they just had
00:33:37:00 - 00:33:38:03
some engagement data which
00:33:38:05 - 00:33:40:06
actually came back recently
00:33:40:08 - 00:33:41:23
which said, well, they've lost
00:33:41:25 - 00:33:43:01
that because people are now
00:33:43:03 - 00:33:44:15
saying via the engagement data
00:33:44:17 - 00:33:46:04
that this is a group
00:33:46:06 - 00:33:47:00
of leaders, that people are
00:33:47:02 - 00:33:49:00
really wondering who they are
00:33:49:02 - 00:33:50:02
and what they really believe.
00:33:50:04 - 00:33:50:19
And they're just like they're
00:33:50:21 - 00:33:52:00
disconnected now from them and
00:33:52:02 - 00:33:53:27
they what they represent is
00:33:53:29 - 00:33:55:07
something which is inconsistent
00:33:55:09 - 00:33:56:18
with the organisation.
00:33:56:20 - 00:33:57:12
So confidence in the
00:33:57:14 - 00:33:58:03
organisation is
00:33:58:05 - 00:34:00:16
diminished somewhat and.
00:34:02:13 - 00:34:03:28
Are you seeing some kind of
00:34:04:00 - 00:34:05:23
snapback in organizations away
00:34:05:25 - 00:34:08:28
from a human approach to back
00:34:09:00 - 00:34:10:10
towards that kind of less human
00:34:10:12 - 00:34:12:17
approach as the imperative for
00:34:12:19 - 00:34:14:02
performance and the drive for
00:34:14:04 - 00:34:14:19
results?
00:34:14:21 - 00:34:15:22
And the concern about if we're
00:34:15:24 - 00:34:16:27
not the first out of the blocks
00:34:16:29 - 00:34:18:25
post-COVID than our competitors
00:34:18:26 - 00:34:20:14
will will take us out.
00:34:22:07 - 00:34:24:10
I reckon I'm seeing both,
00:34:24:12 - 00:34:25:18
but starting to see a little
00:34:25:20 - 00:34:26:11
bit more of what you've
00:34:26:13 - 00:34:27:29
just described and.
00:34:29:18 - 00:34:32:12
Look, I always caution
00:34:32:14 - 00:34:34:12
organizations I work with to be
00:34:34:14 - 00:34:36:00
looking into the dark shadows
00:34:36:02 - 00:34:37:07
where the old system
00:34:37:09 - 00:34:37:25
is lurking.
00:34:38:12 - 00:34:39:15
Because that's what it does.
00:34:39:17 - 00:34:40:02
And it's.
00:34:41:02 - 00:34:42:19
It's always there, even in the
00:34:42:21 - 00:34:44:01
organizations that have got
00:34:44:03 - 00:34:45:28
close to nailing this this
00:34:46:00 - 00:34:46:26
thing still lurking
00:34:46:28 - 00:34:47:19
in the shadows.
00:34:47:21 - 00:34:50:09
Because I think the old system
00:34:50:11 - 00:34:51:10
and the old system means
00:34:51:12 - 00:34:52:18
the humans, some of the humans
00:34:52:20 - 00:34:53:20
that are in the old system,
00:34:53:22 - 00:34:54:17
because that's what
00:34:54:19 - 00:34:55:12
the system is.
00:34:57:05 - 00:34:59:05
They still claim that their
00:34:59:07 - 00:35:01:29
rightful position is at the top
00:35:02:01 - 00:35:03:17
of the organization, as in we
00:35:03:19 - 00:35:04:17
need to go back to what we
00:35:04:19 - 00:35:05:04
used to do.
00:35:05:06 - 00:35:05:21
So
00:35:07:03 - 00:35:09:06
I reckon this thing's popping
00:35:09:08 - 00:35:10:27
its head back out of the
00:35:10:29 - 00:35:13:08
shadows now, and it's doing it
00:35:13:10 - 00:35:14:24
at different paces because it's
00:35:14:26 - 00:35:16:00
very clever as well.
00:35:16:11 - 00:35:18:22
It sort of knows when to be the
00:35:18:24 - 00:35:19:29
wolf in sheep's clothing and
00:35:20:01 - 00:35:20:18
then it knows when to
00:35:20:20 - 00:35:21:12
bear its teeth.
00:35:21:14 - 00:35:22:18
And I think that I'm seeing
00:35:22:20 - 00:35:24:10
everything from the
00:35:24:12 - 00:35:27:02
masquerading of humanity in our
00:35:27:04 - 00:35:28:20
organisation now to
00:35:29:03 - 00:35:30:07
to fully blown.
00:35:30:20 - 00:35:31:29
Get back in the office.
00:35:32:22 - 00:35:33:26
We're in control.
00:35:35:00 - 00:35:35:27
You want your job.
00:35:36:28 - 00:35:38:15
You know, the keyboard
00:35:38:17 - 00:35:39:23
monitoring stuff that went on
00:35:39:25 - 00:35:40:24
during it as well.
00:35:41:03 - 00:35:41:18
So I think I'm
00:35:41:20 - 00:35:43:17
seeing everything, but I'm also
00:35:43:19 - 00:35:44:25
seeing those organizations that
00:35:44:27 - 00:35:46:21
have and I think some of them
00:35:46:23 - 00:35:48:24
by accident, have transformed.
00:35:50:12 - 00:35:52:06
And that's where I hold the
00:35:52:08 - 00:35:54:12
hope is that we got to hear
00:35:54:14 - 00:35:56:23
more of these stories of what
00:35:56:25 - 00:35:57:10
are hear the good
00:35:57:12 - 00:35:57:27
news stories.
00:35:57:29 - 00:35:58:19
One of the things we're great
00:35:58:21 - 00:35:59:09
at doing, you know,
00:35:59:11 - 00:36:00:06
this is we're good.
00:36:01:06 - 00:36:02:01
We're good at having a royal
00:36:02:03 - 00:36:03:03
commission when there's a bit
00:36:03:05 - 00:36:03:24
of bad news.
00:36:03:26 - 00:36:04:26
But when there's good news,
00:36:04:28 - 00:36:05:24
we just go, Oh, that was
00:36:05:26 - 00:36:06:11
a good week.
00:36:06:13 - 00:36:06:28
Let's move on.
00:36:07:00 - 00:36:08:08
I think we've got to highlight
00:36:08:10 - 00:36:09:20
the really the good ones.
00:36:09:22 - 00:36:10:27
I'll say one other thing, too.
00:36:10:29 - 00:36:12:00
I was asked a lot during the
00:36:12:02 - 00:36:13:05
last two years about.
00:36:15:10 - 00:36:16:24
How do we be more human in the
00:36:16:26 - 00:36:17:13
workplace?
00:36:19:07 - 00:36:20:21
And I said, just remove.
00:36:22:11 - 00:36:25:04
The old idea of more human,
00:36:25:06 - 00:36:26:28
like just be human and go back
00:36:27:00 - 00:36:28:03
to what it is to be human,
00:36:28:05 - 00:36:29:11
which I think is what we saw
00:36:29:18 - 00:36:30:11
here at the start of
00:36:30:13 - 00:36:32:23
the pandemic, was, I guess,
00:36:32:25 - 00:36:35:19
this groundswell of of care and
00:36:35:21 - 00:36:37:04
compassion and empathy
00:36:37:22 - 00:36:40:05
and flexibility and.
00:36:41:08 - 00:36:43:15
And I just I hope we don't lose
00:36:43:17 - 00:36:45:06
that to this evil thing lurking
00:36:45:08 - 00:36:45:27
in the shadows.
00:36:46:19 - 00:36:47:04
Yeah.
00:36:47:25 - 00:36:49:20
It seems to me that, you know,
00:36:49:22 - 00:36:52:21
COVID was an acute situation.
00:36:53:02 - 00:36:54:21
Pandemic was an acute situation
00:36:54:23 - 00:36:55:23
in which we were able to
00:36:55:25 - 00:36:57:25
recognize it and learn about
00:36:57:27 - 00:36:58:26
compassion and empathy and
00:36:58:28 - 00:36:59:22
connection and care
00:36:59:24 - 00:37:00:24
and being human.
00:37:02:10 - 00:37:04:17
And however, when the when the
00:37:04:19 - 00:37:05:19
challenges sit out in the
00:37:05:21 - 00:37:08:14
system or many of them at,
00:37:08:16 - 00:37:09:24
you know, inequality,
00:37:10:17 - 00:37:13:21
disparity, just injustice.
00:37:15:22 - 00:37:17:15
Climate change, which is
00:37:17:17 - 00:37:19:02
effectively just a, you know,
00:37:19:04 - 00:37:20:28
a lack of acknowledgement that
00:37:21:13 - 00:37:22:18
our humanity is actually
00:37:22:20 - 00:37:23:27
dependent upon the earth in
00:37:23:29 - 00:37:25:00
which we pursue.
00:37:25:02 - 00:37:25:26
And, you know,
00:37:25:28 - 00:37:27:09
the the unfortunate,
00:37:27:11 - 00:37:30:09
unfettered economic system that
00:37:30:11 - 00:37:32:21
we use has kind of left us in a
00:37:33:08 - 00:37:33:23
particularly
00:37:33:25 - 00:37:34:13
difficult position.
00:37:34:18 - 00:37:35:15
All of these things are just
00:37:35:17 - 00:37:36:13
out there humming away.
00:37:36:15 - 00:37:37:10
But when they're at
00:37:37:12 - 00:37:38:00
that low level.
00:37:38:02 - 00:37:38:17
Hum.
00:37:39:19 - 00:37:40:12
They seem like they're not
00:37:40:14 - 00:37:42:03
enough to catalyze
00:37:42:05 - 00:37:43:17
that that humanity.
00:37:44:02 - 00:37:45:06
And we need to somehow,
00:37:45:18 - 00:37:46:17
you know, turn up the heat.
00:37:47:24 - 00:37:48:18
You know, accept that that
00:37:48:20 - 00:37:51:04
being human is actually part
00:37:51:06 - 00:37:52:23
of the answer.
00:37:54:07 - 00:37:55:05
Because many of the problems
00:37:55:07 - 00:37:56:01
that we've got is because we
00:37:56:03 - 00:37:57:04
have become so disconnected
00:37:57:06 - 00:37:58:00
either from each other
00:37:58:09 - 00:37:59:11
or disconnected from.
00:38:00:24 - 00:38:01:10
The world.
00:38:02:21 - 00:38:05:13
You know, look at the hums.
00:38:05:15 - 00:38:06:06
Not loud enough.
00:38:06:10 - 00:38:07:12
It's almost like.
00:38:08:24 - 00:38:09:27
Like it's got to be.
00:38:11:19 - 00:38:13:17
It's got to be such a loud bang
00:38:13:25 - 00:38:15:15
that sort of shakes people from
00:38:15:17 - 00:38:16:26
their foundations, which is
00:38:16:28 - 00:38:18:04
what Covid's has done.
00:38:21:07 - 00:38:22:12
And then you sort of think,
00:38:22:17 - 00:38:23:12
what's next?
00:38:24:06 - 00:38:25:18
Like, we're always looking for
00:38:25:20 - 00:38:27:08
the next big thing, but we
00:38:27:10 - 00:38:28:04
should be listening to
00:38:28:06 - 00:38:28:21
the hum.
00:38:29:03 - 00:38:29:18
Mm hmm.
00:38:29:20 - 00:38:30:15
And you know that little hammy
00:38:30:17 - 00:38:31:02
noise?
00:38:31:04 - 00:38:31:19
You said it before
00:38:31:21 - 00:38:32:06
we were talking.
00:38:32:08 - 00:38:33:15
I can hear a bit of an echo in
00:38:33:17 - 00:38:35:08
your microphone, and it's just
00:38:35:10 - 00:38:37:06
like it's not that big,
00:38:37:08 - 00:38:38:05
but it's irritating.
00:38:38:29 - 00:38:40:14
And I reckon that's where a lot
00:38:40:16 - 00:38:41:09
of this work is.
00:38:41:11 - 00:38:42:17
It doesn't have to be
00:38:43:03 - 00:38:44:10
the big change.
00:38:45:00 - 00:38:46:27
It's listening for the hum
00:38:47:20 - 00:38:49:17
and going, that's irritating
00:38:49:19 - 00:38:51:28
enough now that we need to
00:38:52:06 - 00:38:54:07
reshape that, we need to do
00:38:54:09 - 00:38:55:15
something about the volume.
00:38:57:17 - 00:38:58:17
But I think we miss those
00:38:58:19 - 00:39:00:11
things because we like to think
00:39:00:13 - 00:39:01:03
we're going to get the
00:39:01:05 - 00:39:01:24
next big thing.
00:39:01:26 - 00:39:03:16
And that's the that's the
00:39:03:18 - 00:39:05:29
question I say to people is the
00:39:06:01 - 00:39:07:26
shift in the switch to human
00:39:07:28 - 00:39:09:03
isn't as big as what.
00:39:10:13 - 00:39:11:15
It's maybe it's not as big as
00:39:11:17 - 00:39:13:05
what people need it to be so
00:39:13:07 - 00:39:15:01
that they can stand out.
00:39:15:03 - 00:39:16:27
It's actually it's just like
00:39:16:29 - 00:39:18:00
actually getting back in the
00:39:18:02 - 00:39:19:24
touch with with who we are.
00:39:20:16 - 00:39:21:03
It's like us
00:39:21:05 - 00:39:22:02
having this conversation.
00:39:22:04 - 00:39:22:21
We're connecting,
00:39:22:23 - 00:39:24:11
we're sharing story,
00:39:24:29 - 00:39:26:12
we're sharing some ideas.
00:39:26:26 - 00:39:28:09
We'll both come away, I think.
00:39:28:11 - 00:39:29:15
I hope the better for it.
00:39:29:29 - 00:39:30:14
Mm.
00:39:30:25 - 00:39:32:03
But we haven't split the atom
00:39:32:27 - 00:39:33:22
and we didn't have to.
00:39:34:11 - 00:39:34:26
Mhm.
00:39:36:06 - 00:39:37:04
So what's a good place?
00:39:37:06 - 00:39:38:00
With that in mind, what's a
00:39:38:02 - 00:39:39:21
good place for leaders to start
00:39:39:23 - 00:39:40:08
?
00:39:40:11 - 00:39:41:12
If there's something someone
00:39:41:14 - 00:39:42:24
listening to our conversation
00:39:42:26 - 00:39:44:00
and saying, I want to cultivate
00:39:44:02 - 00:39:45:09
more humanity in my work.
00:39:46:02 - 00:39:47:21
What would be just a few simple
00:39:47:23 - 00:39:48:18
things that they could do to
00:39:48:20 - 00:39:49:05
start?
00:39:50:12 - 00:39:51:25
Okay, so it has to
00:39:51:27 - 00:39:52:27
start with themselves.
00:39:53:07 - 00:39:54:20
That's that's the key.
00:39:54:22 - 00:39:57:13
It's like and I always go with
00:39:58:20 - 00:40:00:00
what I call human evolution.
00:40:00:09 - 00:40:04:06
So it's it's combining your to
00:40:04:08 - 00:40:05:13
do list with what I call it
00:40:05:15 - 00:40:06:08
to be list.
00:40:06:10 - 00:40:07:16
And this whole idea of
00:40:07:18 - 00:40:09:25
turning up, teaming up to each
00:40:09:27 - 00:40:11:20
engagement and asking yourself
00:40:11:22 - 00:40:12:29
the question of how you choose
00:40:13:01 - 00:40:14:20
to be right now, how you
00:40:14:22 - 00:40:15:13
choose to be.
00:40:15:23 - 00:40:16:11
When we come onto
00:40:16:13 - 00:40:17:28
this podcast, what used to be
00:40:18:00 - 00:40:18:27
when I walk in the door
00:40:18:29 - 00:40:20:10
at home, how I choose to be
00:40:20:22 - 00:40:22:12
when I engage my clients rather
00:40:22:14 - 00:40:24:07
than I now I had to do this
00:40:24:09 - 00:40:27:00
podcast and I know I could get
00:40:27:02 - 00:40:28:17
through it, but how I choose to
00:40:28:19 - 00:40:29:11
be is the thing.
00:40:29:13 - 00:40:30:15
So I think that's the first one
00:40:30:17 - 00:40:32:07
is practicing human evolution
00:40:32:09 - 00:40:35:14
is is the key, I think.
00:40:37:05 - 00:40:39:18
Sharing more about yourself,
00:40:40:12 - 00:40:41:21
particularly with you people,
00:40:41:23 - 00:40:42:24
is a is a key one.
00:40:42:29 - 00:40:44:10
But also understanding that
00:40:45:05 - 00:40:46:05
this is like getting into a
00:40:46:07 - 00:40:47:12
swimming pool is that we
00:40:47:14 - 00:40:48:18
entered the swimming pool down
00:40:48:20 - 00:40:50:06
the steps as we would enter
00:40:50:08 - 00:40:51:24
into vulnerability that we will
00:40:51:26 - 00:40:53:10
share a little bit at
00:40:53:12 - 00:40:54:06
the shallow end.
00:40:54:27 - 00:40:55:26
We will share a little bit in
00:40:55:28 - 00:40:57:11
the mid end at some point,
00:40:57:13 - 00:40:58:11
and then we might go down
00:40:58:13 - 00:40:59:18
towards the deep end, but we
00:40:59:20 - 00:41:00:27
won't get to the deep
00:41:00:29 - 00:41:01:17
end first.
00:41:02:03 - 00:41:03:06
So just understanding and
00:41:03:08 - 00:41:04:22
regulating that vulnerability,
00:41:04:24 - 00:41:05:21
I think is an important,
00:41:06:04 - 00:41:07:07
important part of it.
00:41:09:17 - 00:41:10:28
And I think the other one is
00:41:11:00 - 00:41:13:18
really embracing what I call
00:41:13:20 - 00:41:16:07
permission to live so and to
00:41:16:09 - 00:41:16:24
live a life
00:41:16:26 - 00:41:18:01
which incorporates work.
00:41:18:03 - 00:41:20:13
So, you know, at dinner, one of
00:41:20:15 - 00:41:21:10
the things I did and I can't
00:41:21:12 - 00:41:22:06
say that everyone could
00:41:22:08 - 00:41:23:24
do this, but I'd actually work
00:41:23:26 - 00:41:25:18
with my last team and we'd
00:41:25:20 - 00:41:27:01
built some non-work-related
00:41:27:03 - 00:41:28:06
goals into their performance
00:41:28:08 - 00:41:30:08
plan because I said that it was
00:41:30:10 - 00:41:31:28
very important for me that you
00:41:32:00 - 00:41:33:18
all got to feel like you had
00:41:33:20 - 00:41:34:25
permission to live a
00:41:35:07 - 00:41:36:05
fulfilled life,
00:41:36:07 - 00:41:37:16
which meant work.
00:41:37:18 - 00:41:40:25
So family, community, and that
00:41:40:27 - 00:41:41:22
made a big difference.
00:41:41:24 - 00:41:44:17
So just embracing that and I
00:41:44:19 - 00:41:45:12
think we've seen it in the last
00:41:45:14 - 00:41:47:27
two years embracing that it's
00:41:47:29 - 00:41:48:22
okay to do that.
00:41:48:24 - 00:41:49:17
And then the other one with
00:41:49:19 - 00:41:51:12
that just quickly is role
00:41:51:14 - 00:41:52:15
modeling that yourself.
00:41:52:29 - 00:41:53:14
Mm.
00:41:53:20 - 00:41:56:11
Like role modeling, life design
00:41:56:13 - 00:41:57:05
or what they call work
00:41:57:07 - 00:41:58:02
life balance yourself.
00:41:58:04 - 00:41:58:25
I think there would be three
00:41:58:27 - 00:42:01:13
things for for managers to
00:42:01:15 - 00:42:02:03
focus in on.
00:42:02:05 - 00:42:03:16
But the experiment one is very
00:42:03:18 - 00:42:04:15
important experimenting
00:42:04:17 - 00:42:05:02
on self.
00:42:05:17 - 00:42:06:02
Yeah.
00:42:06:14 - 00:42:07:16
And that role modeling one I
00:42:07:18 - 00:42:08:19
know is very powerful.
00:42:08:21 - 00:42:10:16
I worked with a leader a number
00:42:10:18 - 00:42:12:08
of years ago and this was an
00:42:12:10 - 00:42:13:10
organization that was a pretty
00:42:13:12 - 00:42:14:28
early adopter of this notion of
00:42:15:15 - 00:42:17:05
work life balance, and they
00:42:17:07 - 00:42:18:00
were really genuinely
00:42:18:02 - 00:42:18:18
committed to it.
00:42:18:20 - 00:42:19:28
They knew that it had all of
00:42:20:00 - 00:42:20:23
these benefits
00:42:20:25 - 00:42:21:20
associated with it.
00:42:21:22 - 00:42:24:02
But this one managing the
00:42:24:04 - 00:42:26:14
country managing director would
00:42:26:16 - 00:42:29:02
work incredible hours, and it
00:42:29:04 - 00:42:30:06
was all the classic signals
00:42:30:08 - 00:42:31:13
around sort of sending emails
00:42:31:15 - 00:42:32:16
late at night, early in
00:42:32:18 - 00:42:33:08
the morning,
00:42:34:24 - 00:42:35:20
you know, people would he'd be
00:42:35:22 - 00:42:37:11
the last to leave, the first to
00:42:37:13 - 00:42:38:06
turn up, all of those
00:42:38:08 - 00:42:38:23
sorts of things.
00:42:38:25 - 00:42:39:24
And I remember a conversation
00:42:39:26 - 00:42:40:25
with him where he was he was
00:42:40:27 - 00:42:42:16
imploring people to actually.
00:42:43:21 - 00:42:44:27
To not do what he does.
00:42:45:25 - 00:42:47:05
And that they had permission.
00:42:48:06 - 00:42:50:03
To not do what he does yet.
00:42:50:11 - 00:42:51:18
The very fact that he did it
00:42:51:20 - 00:42:52:22
said that he valued it,
00:42:53:06 - 00:42:54:09
which meant that it was very
00:42:54:11 - 00:42:55:18
hard for other people to
00:42:55:20 - 00:42:56:05
not do it.
00:42:56:07 - 00:42:57:23
So I think that that that role
00:42:57:25 - 00:42:58:22
modeling is so important.
00:42:59:00 - 00:43:01:14
And you I know you you like to
00:43:01:16 - 00:43:02:25
be authentic and I know I've
00:43:02:27 - 00:43:04:00
seen you before actually
00:43:04:02 - 00:43:05:03
challenge yourself to
00:43:05:05 - 00:43:07:04
be genuinely authentic.
00:43:07:06 - 00:43:08:19
I remember one time, one moment
00:43:08:21 - 00:43:09:18
in the Harvard program, but was
00:43:09:20 - 00:43:12:19
really powerful where you you
00:43:12:21 - 00:43:14:18
had to step into courage
00:43:14:20 - 00:43:15:18
and own something.
00:43:17:07 - 00:43:18:14
And it was a very powerful
00:43:18:16 - 00:43:20:25
public example of leadership
00:43:20:27 - 00:43:22:21
through courage and
00:43:22:23 - 00:43:24:03
openness and acceptance.
00:43:25:21 - 00:43:26:26
But that must be hard, Mark,
00:43:26:28 - 00:43:27:27
to keep doing that work.
00:43:27:29 - 00:43:29:12
Constantly putting yourself
00:43:29:14 - 00:43:30:09
right out on the edge
00:43:30:11 - 00:43:31:08
this way.
00:43:31:13 - 00:43:32:17
Where do you go for
00:43:32:25 - 00:43:33:18
re-energizing?
00:43:33:20 - 00:43:34:20
Who do you look to for
00:43:34:22 - 00:43:35:10
inspiration?
00:43:39:22 - 00:43:40:22
So where do I go?
00:43:40:29 - 00:43:41:23
Where do I go?
00:43:41:25 - 00:43:43:01
For the energy of a very.
00:43:44:10 - 00:43:45:04
A very.
00:43:46:22 - 00:43:47:25
Maybe some people may think
00:43:47:27 - 00:43:49:15
are boring, but I think a very
00:43:49:17 - 00:43:50:14
strong ritual now,
00:43:50:16 - 00:43:52:03
which involves around 2 hours a
00:43:52:05 - 00:43:53:12
day of mark time.
00:43:54:09 - 00:43:57:00
So it's some breathing, some.
00:43:58:06 - 00:43:59:21
Strength based, cardio based
00:43:59:23 - 00:44:00:20
exercise with a
00:44:00:22 - 00:44:01:28
hot cold therapy.
00:44:02:00 - 00:44:03:22
And and then by the end
00:44:03:24 - 00:44:05:09
of that, I'm like, because I
00:44:05:11 - 00:44:06:19
need to fill I need to fill
00:44:06:21 - 00:44:08:09
that cup back up because this
00:44:08:11 - 00:44:09:21
is very, very taxing work.
00:44:10:02 - 00:44:11:11
So I think that's where I
00:44:11:13 - 00:44:12:16
that that's helpful.
00:44:12:20 - 00:44:14:12
I had always been a yo yo
00:44:14:14 - 00:44:16:12
with that, but my I think COVID
00:44:16:14 - 00:44:17:19
has been an upside for me on
00:44:17:21 - 00:44:19:21
that because I've become very
00:44:19:23 - 00:44:20:20
good at that sort of things.
00:44:20:22 - 00:44:23:00
Where do I who are the people
00:44:23:02 - 00:44:23:24
that I look to?
00:44:26:12 - 00:44:27:08
This is an interesting
00:44:27:10 - 00:44:27:29
one because, you know,
00:44:28:01 - 00:44:30:01
I'm obviously the Mardy
00:44:30:03 - 00:44:30:27
Lewinsky's of the world.
00:44:30:29 - 00:44:32:02
I'll always talk about Malia,
00:44:32:04 - 00:44:32:24
love him dearly.
00:44:32:26 - 00:44:34:17
He's had a profound impact on
00:44:34:19 - 00:44:35:26
my life with a few words he
00:44:35:28 - 00:44:36:19
said to me at Harvard
00:44:36:21 - 00:44:38:09
that time, and that was around
00:44:38:11 - 00:44:39:13
the acceptance that I was good
00:44:39:15 - 00:44:41:19
enough to to be in that room
00:44:41:21 - 00:44:42:12
with other people.
00:44:45:11 - 00:44:46:14
Conversations like this are
00:44:46:16 - 00:44:47:22
helpful because, you know,
00:44:47:25 - 00:44:49:15
we don't speak as much as we'd
00:44:49:17 - 00:44:50:18
like to, but, you know,
00:44:50:27 - 00:44:52:06
you sort of come back into a
00:44:52:08 - 00:44:52:28
come back with you.
00:44:53:00 - 00:44:54:13
And it feels like we've we
00:44:54:15 - 00:44:55:00
might have been
00:44:55:02 - 00:44:55:27
talking just yesterday.
00:44:57:08 - 00:44:58:14
I think family is a big one
00:44:58:16 - 00:45:01:08
for me, that my family
00:45:01:10 - 00:45:02:17
are very, very good at letting
00:45:02:19 - 00:45:03:26
me know when they feel like I'm
00:45:03:28 - 00:45:04:25
starting to get a little bit
00:45:05:12 - 00:45:06:09
ahead of myself.
00:45:07:05 - 00:45:08:00
And I can do that at
00:45:08:02 - 00:45:09:04
times because, you know,
00:45:09:06 - 00:45:11:10
when you do this work and you
00:45:11:12 - 00:45:12:12
and you get good results,
00:45:12:14 - 00:45:14:00
you can start to think you're a
00:45:14:02 - 00:45:14:18
little bit better than
00:45:14:20 - 00:45:15:05
what you are.
00:45:15:07 - 00:45:16:25
So I think the people to ground
00:45:16:27 - 00:45:18:22
me and tell me what I need to
00:45:18:24 - 00:45:20:04
hear is really good.
00:45:20:06 - 00:45:20:25
And the other one I'm going to
00:45:20:27 - 00:45:24:04
say is I get it from my clients
00:45:24:27 - 00:45:26:09
and maybe sometimes
00:45:26:11 - 00:45:27:12
people say, Oh, you get a bit
00:45:27:14 - 00:45:28:19
too close to your clients.
00:45:28:21 - 00:45:29:06
But
00:45:30:20 - 00:45:33:13
when I see people transform
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over a period of time and it's
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usually not a short period
00:45:36:15 - 00:45:38:19
of time, it's like.
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That's not work for me.
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That is.
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That's a purpose to that.
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So that makes me feel I make me
00:45:46:11 - 00:45:48:07
feel I'm quite
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emotional at times.
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And I know that someone says
00:45:50:20 - 00:45:51:16
to me, you know, last pick
00:45:51:18 - 00:45:52:04
someone they like,
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you've actually changed
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my life.
00:45:53:24 - 00:45:55:03
And I do the old now.
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I haven't.
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And they're like, No, no,
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shut up for a minute.
00:45:58:02 - 00:45:59:00
You've actually changed
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my life.
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So that's that's the stuff.
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Then you go, I want to keep
00:46:02:15 - 00:46:03:10
going back and doing it.
00:46:03:12 - 00:46:04:00
You'd know that what
00:46:04:02 - 00:46:05:13
that's like, it's a really
00:46:05:15 - 00:46:06:16
unique position
00:46:06:18 - 00:46:07:14
and privilege to.
00:46:07:20 - 00:46:08:06
To have.
00:46:09:14 - 00:46:09:29
It is.
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And at the same time, we can
00:46:14:08 - 00:46:15:19
when you talked before about
00:46:15:21 - 00:46:18:00
the temptation of starting to,
00:46:18:22 - 00:46:21:05
you know, believe how good
00:46:21:07 - 00:46:22:10
you are, you have to accept the
00:46:22:12 - 00:46:23:14
role that you play and accept
00:46:23:16 - 00:46:24:12
that you're playing a helpful
00:46:24:14 - 00:46:25:09
role and acknowledging and
00:46:25:11 - 00:46:26:09
allow that to fill you up.
00:46:26:11 - 00:46:27:11
But at the same time.
00:46:28:13 - 00:46:30:11
Not let ego take over.
00:46:30:13 - 00:46:32:18
I remember on High Fitz at one
00:46:32:20 - 00:46:34:25
point saying, You need to be
00:46:34:27 - 00:46:35:26
careful at the moment at which
00:46:35:28 - 00:46:37:19
you completely believe
00:46:37:21 - 00:46:38:10
your own bullshit.
00:46:39:04 - 00:46:39:19
Yeah.
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And, and so part of the part of
00:46:42:28 - 00:46:43:29
the antidote to that is to
00:46:44:01 - 00:46:44:24
actually say, oh,
00:46:44:26 - 00:46:45:26
I don't know everything.
00:46:46:03 - 00:46:47:00
I don't have all the
00:46:47:02 - 00:46:47:17
answers.
00:46:47:26 - 00:46:48:11
I'm.
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I'm still pushing out into
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territory which with which I
00:46:52:08 - 00:46:52:29
am incompetent
00:46:54:16 - 00:46:55:09
and graceful.
00:46:55:25 - 00:46:56:24
I'm not effective.
00:46:57:14 - 00:46:58:26
So the question I ask all the
00:46:58:28 - 00:46:59:16
guests who come on
00:46:59:18 - 00:47:00:18
the program, Mark, is,
00:47:01:15 - 00:47:02:00
you know.
00:47:02:22 - 00:47:03:29
What's your learning edge at
00:47:04:01 - 00:47:04:16
the moment?
00:47:04:27 - 00:47:06:09
What are you working on?
00:47:10:14 - 00:47:10:29
Well, there's a
00:47:11:01 - 00:47:11:20
couple of things.
00:47:14:09 - 00:47:15:15
I think one of them and I
00:47:15:17 - 00:47:17:18
really struggle with this is.
00:47:19:00 - 00:47:20:10
Acceptance of an
00:47:20:12 - 00:47:22:02
acknowledgement of my work.
00:47:23:13 - 00:47:24:00
Because, you know,
00:47:24:02 - 00:47:24:19
I said before.
00:47:24:21 - 00:47:25:13
Oh, no, I haven't.
00:47:25:15 - 00:47:26:15
Oh, it's just my job.
00:47:26:17 - 00:47:27:12
Or I might come up with.
00:47:27:20 - 00:47:29:06
Whenever someone praises me,
00:47:29:22 - 00:47:30:27
I'm very quick to
00:47:30:29 - 00:47:31:26
shut that down.
00:47:31:28 - 00:47:33:24
And I think that comes from
00:47:34:20 - 00:47:36:15
maybe not being praised as much
00:47:36:17 - 00:47:38:12
as I might have been earlier in
00:47:38:17 - 00:47:39:15
my in my life.
00:47:39:17 - 00:47:40:13
But I think that's the
00:47:40:15 - 00:47:41:02
best set.
00:47:41:04 - 00:47:42:20
The age for me now is accept
00:47:42:22 - 00:47:44:13
the acceptance of me as me,
00:47:45:03 - 00:47:46:05
and that if someone's
00:47:46:07 - 00:47:47:14
praising me, that I should
00:47:47:16 - 00:47:49:00
accept that and not try and.
00:47:50:03 - 00:47:51:17
You know, water it down
00:47:51:19 - 00:47:52:04
in some way.
00:47:52:06 - 00:47:53:20
So I think that's that's one
00:47:53:22 - 00:47:54:07
maybe there's a bit of
00:47:54:09 - 00:47:55:00
humbleness in that.
00:47:55:02 - 00:47:56:00
And maybe the other side
00:47:56:02 - 00:47:57:05
of that, too, I think charities
00:47:57:07 - 00:47:59:12
that I can go the other way
00:47:59:14 - 00:48:02:04
very quickly to to be a
00:48:02:06 - 00:48:04:14
braggart and, you know, get too
00:48:04:16 - 00:48:05:09
far ahead of myself.
00:48:05:11 - 00:48:06:00
So I think there's
00:48:06:10 - 00:48:07:02
there's that.
00:48:09:10 - 00:48:10:06
I think there's also
00:48:10:08 - 00:48:11:12
a piece around.
00:48:12:11 - 00:48:13:15
I have this thing around
00:48:13:17 - 00:48:14:27
academics in academia.
00:48:16:02 - 00:48:18:26
And that because I like to call
00:48:18:28 - 00:48:20:25
myself the certified Bogan at
00:48:20:27 - 00:48:21:18
the Edge right now.
00:48:21:20 - 00:48:22:22
And I'm actually this is an
00:48:22:24 - 00:48:23:24
experiment I'm running right
00:48:23:26 - 00:48:26:05
now is to spend time with like
00:48:26:07 - 00:48:29:04
true academics who may have a
00:48:29:06 - 00:48:30:08
different view on what
00:48:30:10 - 00:48:32:06
leadership is to me, but to
00:48:32:26 - 00:48:34:16
embrace and accept that view
00:48:34:18 - 00:48:36:22
that it can be out of a book
00:48:37:03 - 00:48:37:20
and not just
00:48:37:22 - 00:48:38:18
from lived experience.
00:48:38:20 - 00:48:40:00
And I've struggled with that
00:48:40:02 - 00:48:41:24
for a very long time, and I've
00:48:41:26 - 00:48:42:27
actually tried to.
00:48:44:02 - 00:48:45:11
I've actually tried to
00:48:45:13 - 00:48:48:00
disassociate myself with those
00:48:48:02 - 00:48:49:02
sorts of things, even though I
00:48:49:04 - 00:48:50:09
was over at Harvard with you.
00:48:50:26 - 00:48:51:15
It's like.
00:48:53:01 - 00:48:54:29
Don't let them see that you
00:48:55:01 - 00:48:56:23
might be half smart.
00:48:56:25 - 00:48:58:29
Mark is one of the things I'm
00:48:59:01 - 00:49:00:03
really at the edge of
00:49:00:05 - 00:49:01:04
trying to accept.
00:49:01:06 - 00:49:02:11
And I'm working with a lovely,
00:49:02:27 - 00:49:04:06
a lovely lady by the name of
00:49:04:08 - 00:49:05:16
Nolan Kerry, who's really
00:49:05:18 - 00:49:06:13
challenging me in this
00:49:06:15 - 00:49:07:07
space right now.
00:49:09:08 - 00:49:10:00
Thank you, Mark,
00:49:10:02 - 00:49:12:14
for sharing that openly.
00:49:12:25 - 00:49:13:18
It's one of the things I love
00:49:13:20 - 00:49:14:21
about when a chat with you is
00:49:14:23 - 00:49:15:28
your your openness and
00:49:16:00 - 00:49:16:18
your candor
00:49:18:14 - 00:49:20:02
and how everything that you
00:49:20:04 - 00:49:21:05
share feels like.
00:49:21:07 - 00:49:23:18
It's it's it's not a it's not
00:49:23:20 - 00:49:24:24
a fabricated thing.
00:49:24:26 - 00:49:25:22
It's actually coming from how
00:49:25:24 - 00:49:28:05
you actually feel in that
00:49:28:07 - 00:49:29:14
moment and the experiences that
00:49:29:16 - 00:49:30:02
you've had or that
00:49:30:04 - 00:49:30:24
you've been having.
00:49:31:21 - 00:49:33:09
How can people stay in touch
00:49:33:11 - 00:49:35:06
with you and your work and your
00:49:35:08 - 00:49:35:23
thinking?
00:49:37:06 - 00:49:38:24
Best place, LinkedIn.
00:49:38:26 - 00:49:40:13
I'm a bit of a LinkedIn fiend,
00:49:40:15 - 00:49:41:06
I think you know that.
00:49:41:08 - 00:49:43:24
So if if they look me up on
00:49:43:26 - 00:49:45:10
LinkedIn just under Mark Lebusque
00:49:45:12 - 00:49:47:05
could be us.
00:49:47:07 - 00:49:48:13
Q You're not a hard one
00:49:48:15 - 00:49:49:00
to find.
00:49:49:02 - 00:49:49:23
Not many of us in there.
00:49:51:12 - 00:49:55:12
My website's just www.marklebusque
00:49:55:14 - 00:49:56:18
.com and there's a whole lot
00:49:56:20 - 00:49:57:17
of different things this some
00:49:57:19 - 00:49:59:24
podcasting and some blogging
00:49:59:26 - 00:50:00:29
and some other bits and pieces
00:50:01:01 - 00:50:02:13
in there so that'd be the
00:50:02:25 - 00:50:04:05
that'd be the places to
00:50:04:11 - 00:50:05:06
connect with me.
00:50:06:06 - 00:50:07:08
But yeah, look and please,
00:50:07:10 - 00:50:08:27
I do, I do really mean this.
00:50:09:12 - 00:50:10:13
If anyone does want to have
00:50:10:15 - 00:50:11:12
a chat, just reach out.
00:50:11:14 - 00:50:12:10
There's no obligation.
00:50:12:12 - 00:50:13:08
I'm not going to try and sell
00:50:13:10 - 00:50:14:13
you a set of steak knives in a
00:50:14:15 - 00:50:15:12
two day program.
00:50:15:18 - 00:50:17:15
I actually just like meeting
00:50:17:21 - 00:50:18:17
and learning from
00:50:19:07 - 00:50:20:29
human beings, so please feel
00:50:21:01 - 00:50:21:24
free to reach out.
00:50:23:01 - 00:50:23:16
Good.
00:50:23:18 - 00:50:24:08
I'm sure people will.
00:50:24:18 - 00:50:26:02
But thank you very much.
00:50:26:04 - 00:50:27:23
I've enjoyed the conversation.
00:50:27:25 - 00:50:29:07
It's it's a real delight to
00:50:29:09 - 00:50:30:06
have a conversation with a
00:50:30:08 - 00:50:31:29
friend and to be able to even
00:50:32:01 - 00:50:33:08
use that conversation to learn
00:50:33:10 - 00:50:35:12
even more about more about the
00:50:35:14 - 00:50:37:04
friend so that it actually
00:50:37:06 - 00:50:38:07
facilitates and kind of,
00:50:38:09 - 00:50:39:23
you know, just enables us to
00:50:40:02 - 00:50:41:22
remain connected and connect
00:50:41:24 - 00:50:42:23
even more so.
00:50:43:00 - 00:50:44:07
Thank you very much for joining
00:50:44:09 - 00:50:44:24
us on the
00:50:44:26 - 00:50:45:27
Extraordinary Leaders podcast.
00:50:47:17 - 00:50:48:02
Gerard.
00:50:48:04 - 00:50:48:19
Thanks for having me.
00:50:48:21 - 00:50:49:21
Always great to have a chat,
00:50:49:23 - 00:50:50:08
my friend.
00:50:50:10 - 00:50:50:25
Thank you.
00:50:51:11 - 00:50:51:27
Take care.
00:50:56:07 - 00:50:57:09
I really enjoyed that
00:50:57:11 - 00:50:58:15
conversation with Mark.
00:50:59:09 - 00:51:01:03
It's very easy to immerse
00:51:01:05 - 00:51:02:22
yourself in a topic that you
00:51:02:24 - 00:51:03:29
personally feel passionate
00:51:04:01 - 00:51:05:19
about as well as.
00:51:06:29 - 00:51:08:08
Not only share the passion with
00:51:08:10 - 00:51:10:18
somebody else, but he things
00:51:10:20 - 00:51:12:06
and think about things in a
00:51:12:08 - 00:51:13:16
different way as a consequence
00:51:13:18 - 00:51:14:22
of that conversation.
00:51:16:04 - 00:51:17:22
One of the things I always take
00:51:17:24 - 00:51:19:17
from my conversations with Mark
00:51:19:24 - 00:51:21:28
is a question is a question
00:51:22:00 - 00:51:24:09
about my own consistency and
00:51:24:11 - 00:51:25:19
my own authenticity.
00:51:26:13 - 00:51:27:28
Whilst I can talk about these
00:51:28:00 - 00:51:30:06
things around compassion.
00:51:31:07 - 00:51:32:12
Or being able to see different
00:51:32:14 - 00:51:33:25
truths and perspectives,
00:51:34:03 - 00:51:36:13
curiosity or courage
00:51:36:27 - 00:51:38:11
or empathy, the sorts of things
00:51:38:13 - 00:51:39:28
that play such a central role
00:51:40:00 - 00:51:40:29
in our leadership.
00:51:42:01 - 00:51:43:02
The question I'm often
00:51:43:04 - 00:51:43:26
left with is.
00:51:45:01 - 00:51:46:24
Am I genuinely doing this?
00:51:47:17 - 00:51:49:03
Am I doing it with the deep
00:51:49:05 - 00:51:50:14
commitment that's necessary?
00:51:50:24 - 00:51:52:07
Am I doing it consistently
00:51:52:09 - 00:51:53:12
enough to make a difference?
00:51:55:06 - 00:51:56:16
And the beautiful thing is
00:51:56:18 - 00:51:57:20
about the acceptance of
00:51:57:22 - 00:51:59:21
ourselves as humans and the
00:51:59:23 - 00:52:00:27
humanness that we need to
00:52:00:29 - 00:52:02:29
cultivate around us is that
00:52:03:01 - 00:52:04:15
whilst I can aspire to be
00:52:04:17 - 00:52:05:15
better at these things.
00:52:06:25 - 00:52:08:06
I'm okay if I'm not
00:52:08:08 - 00:52:09:02
doing it perfectly.
00:52:10:08 - 00:52:11:19
That my intention?
00:52:12:22 - 00:52:13:18
My desire.
00:52:14:17 - 00:52:16:22
And my repeated attempts.
00:52:17:22 - 00:52:19:17
There are enough doesn't have
00:52:19:19 - 00:52:21:18
to be perfect and nor do the
00:52:21:20 - 00:52:22:13
people around me.
00:52:23:16 - 00:52:25:02
So with that thought, I'd like
00:52:25:04 - 00:52:27:14
to leave you to ponder your own
00:52:27:20 - 00:52:29:27
perfect imperfection and that
00:52:29:29 - 00:52:31:27
of your team and your peers and
00:52:31:29 - 00:52:32:24
your bosses and
00:52:32:26 - 00:52:33:15
your colleagues.
00:52:34:16 - 00:52:37:08
Those people who come to work
00:52:37:19 - 00:52:38:21
with potentially some of the
00:52:38:23 - 00:52:40:19
same desires and aspirations
00:52:40:21 - 00:52:41:28
and fears and anxieties and
00:52:42:00 - 00:52:43:03
worries that you possess.
00:52:44:22 - 00:52:47:05
Who nonetheless together could
00:52:47:07 - 00:52:47:22
do
00:52:47:24 - 00:52:48:21
something quite extraordinary.
00:52:50:18 - 00:52:51:14
We could all just hang out
00:52:51:16 - 00:52:52:01
with each other.
00:52:53:01 - 00:52:53:25
As human beings.
00:52:55:00 - 00:52:55:25
Thanks for listening to the
00:52:55:27 - 00:52:57:08
Extraordinary Leaders podcast.
00:52:57:25 - 00:52:58:14
Take care.
00:52:58:24 - 00:52:59:11
Lead well.